My friend has caught him at the movies , in a club , and kissing another girl. I am so lost ? Any advise?
2007-01-02 05:49:26 · 47 answers · asked by Regina (hot blonde) 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dummp him he is a looser u realy want a man like that
2007-01-02 06:02:59 · answer #1 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First - Thank your friend for caring enough about you to tell you the truth.
Second - Break up w/ your boyfriend. Cheaters who are confronted don't stop cheating, they just stop making the mistakes that got them caught cheating last time.
Third - Go to the local Planned Parenthood or Health Department & get HIV/STD testing done, both immediately & 3-6 months later. This is extremely important, in case he left you any parting gifts from one of his other friends.
2007-01-02 05:55:02 · answer #2 · answered by anerasescovedo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend told you that she seen him at 2 seperate places with another? Why did she wait to say anything? Your best avenue here I think is to talk to him about this accusation first. It could be that this "friend" is trying to break you two up because she wants a "go" at him. If I see one of my girl's other half out with someone else, I am on the phone right away tellin her to get her butt over so that she can see it with her own eyes.
Unfortunately there are some people out there that we call "friend" only to find out that they would stab you in the back like it is no big deal. Girls (and guys) that you think of as friend and they would easily tryin taking your man (or woman) yet look you in the eye and say that they would never hurt you or abuse your trust.
Talk to your guy and give him a chance to defend himself against these accusations.
Best of luck to you!
2007-01-02 06:02:30 · answer #3 · answered by _Savage_ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why even ask? He is turning to another because something is missing in your relationship with him. If he's cannot come to you and talk to you about it and try to fix it, then why would you want to continue on with him? A good relationship has complete trust and communication, right now you have neither. There are better things to do with your time then sit and ponder this, and destroy yourself emotionally. Move on girl!!!!!
2007-01-02 05:54:03 · answer #4 · answered by BMW BFD 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you think you should do? You love him right? He's a schmuck. Dump him. Once a cheater always a cheater. He will try to smooth things over with you. Don't let him. End it...you will get over it eventually.....you deserve someone better and he is still out there. This guy he isn't the one.
2007-01-02 05:56:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confrontation- confront him and see how he reacts. If he confesses, then give him another try to repent. If he denies it then tell him you know other wise, if you take your friend's word over him, and then up and leave him- if he can't be honest about that, what else has he or will he lie about. You deserve the best, Good luck
2007-01-02 05:52:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How good a friend is this? Is she the only witness? Ask around. How do you know your friend isn't lying so she can get your man?
If you find he is a two-timer dump him, preferably for one of his friends. That'll teach him. Just kidding. Move on. Nothing more you can do. Good luck to you!
2007-01-02 05:52:47 · answer #7 · answered by Inquiringmind 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definetly dump Him u deserve better nobody deserves to be cheated on My last girlfreind I found out that she was cheating on me one day before our one year that sucked. Get another one of your guy freinds to kick hi a**
2007-01-02 05:56:03 · answer #8 · answered by genius 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? You should just break up with him! You shouldnt even have to ask this question. But there is no point in getting mad at him or yelling at him because he is not even worth it. Just call him and tell him that your not a dumba*s and that your not putting up with his games!
2007-01-02 05:51:50 · answer #9 · answered by smitty4626 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him, grab your pride and get back on the high road of life he was just a wrong turn that gave you an opportunity to learn from so enjoy the ride :)
2007-01-02 05:59:49 · answer #10 · answered by undeniable 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are alot of girls asking this same question and I always reply with go find yourself a good man that will love you and only you. Drop the guy that's cheating on you,he's no good for you.
2007-01-02 05:53:43 · answer #11 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋