I've been casually dating this guy for 6 months. Recently, it seems as though fate is bringing us closer together. His car ran out of gas around the corner from my house and he called me to help him out. Every since then he's really been feeling how I've been there for him and we've been hanging out almost everyday.
He even said he was thinking about us getting joint bank accounts, and about us having a child together. I gave him keys to my apartment and he gladly accepted and gave me a kiss. When we went out new year's eve he introduced me to his friends as his girl. I thought we were just going to be casual but it appears he's having a change of heart for the new year. He said that it's important for us to always maintain a great friendship no matter if things work out or not. So can I take this as this relationship is taking a serious turn.
2007-01-02 05:40:32 · 3 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Joint accounts not a good idea. Not even a good idea if you end up getting married. Unless you are going to have your own account and he is going to have his own account as well. Most money trouble comes from joint accounts if you know what you have in your personal account and that is all you take money from and he dose the same it is easier to keep track and have the joint account for things like saving for payments on the house and things of that nature. As for is it serious the guy said he wants to knock you up it sounds pretty serious. I think you should listen to the other advice you have received though. I don’t know what most guys are like but I was not ready to settle down until I was 31 and did not jump into it. 6 months is a pretty short amount of time to know you want to have a family with someone. I would say the fact he wants to maintain a friendship even if it dose not work out sounds a bit wired too.
2007-01-02 07:09:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u might wanna b careful w/ this guy..he wants to share a bank account w/ u? can r u really trust him not to take ur money? well hon jus b careful wait a little while longer and c what happens
2007-01-02 05:46:10 · answer #2 · answered by Lex[baller#11]<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you you you and you. all I read was about you doing this or that for him and the only nice thing he did was introducing you as his "girl" to his friends. he talks and talks but he doesnt do anything as good as you do for him. joint accounts? you dont even live together!!!!
2007-01-02 05:48:48 · answer #3 · answered by chikis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋