i found out my bf was cheatin on me. i was mad so i broke up with him. what should i do?
2007-01-02 05:17:09 · 34 answers · asked by NIKKI S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he cheated on you and you broke up with him because of it, sounds like you have self-esteem and should move on...what is the problem or question here then? Just because a change it your life may be a little painful because it is different than you are used to, does not mean it is not a change for the better!
2007-01-02 05:20:57 · answer #1 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably wise that you did break up with him but then again you have to ask yourself how much you really care about him and whether you can get over the fact that he cheated on you. A lot of people say that once a cheater always a cheater but that really isn't always true. If you care enough about the guy and he cares about you and is truly sorry for his actions maybe couples counseling is worth looking into. I guess you need to first define what you want-whether you want to try to make it work or not. It's not easy getting over someone cheating on you though.
2007-01-02 05:22:02 · answer #2 · answered by Tricia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from him. You do not want someone in your life that is that destructive. I would also go to get tested for any sexually transmitted diseases. Who knows what he did with whom. I am not saying this to scare you, just to protect u. Sometimes not knowing can kill u. Most important than anything is do NOT let him sucker you back by saying he is sorry and he won't do it again, that is just a game. Stay strong and believe me when I say you will hurt for a while but the pain does go away as time goes on, I promise :-)
2007-01-02 05:22:54 · answer #3 · answered by J-Dub 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe the word should should have any moral connotation. It should be short hand is appropriate and It's not for me to give you a should except to say you should do what you feel is the right thing for you. Moving on or talking to him are but two options that you might consider but it is up to you and good luck with it.
2007-01-02 05:23:32 · answer #4 · answered by Stag S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go out with friends and have some fun. If he tries to get back you need to consider he will probably lose some respect for you, and may well cheat on you again. Who needs it? Go have some fun and meet someone better.
2007-01-02 05:22:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay broke up and move on. Has he cheated on you before or is this is the first time. If it is the first time do listen to him to find out his reasons.
2007-01-02 05:19:33 · answer #6 · answered by stringhead3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on, you deserve better, he's done it once he'll do it again... chances are he's done it to other girls too... he may have been cheating on someone else when he hooked up with you. You did the right thing, just continue to be good to yourself and you will find someone who will treat you right. Good Luck.
2007-01-02 05:19:15 · answer #7 · answered by Mystery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get back with him even if you're tempted to do it. Once a cheater always a cheater. Forget about him and get on with your life. There's somebody better out there for you.
2007-01-02 05:20:29 · answer #8 · answered by Just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you did the right thing. Now learn from your mistakes and move on with your life.
2007-01-02 05:19:06 · answer #9 · answered by wnk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. If he cheated he isn't worth it. FInd some friends or even a new guy and have fun.
2007-01-02 05:18:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋