Can you help me with my working relations?

Question

Hi i am struggling with my work colleagues the thing is it takes me ages to get to know people and once i start getting on with them and they feel comfortable with me it goes out the window as someone new starts and then they dont want to know me. Its like on workdos i feel left out as not many people talk to me. I like a couple of the guys who i work with but its always me initating it as im shy they dont talk to me as much. The new girls get all the attention off the guys and i dont get a look in

Answer 1

Simple: don't be afraid of rejection, that's part of the game.

Answer 2

HI-Your like me Im a bit shy, It is always the same when an atractive girl starts a new job the lads try & get to know her & hopefully try & get a date if you dont bite they try & put there attentions to someone else, so ignore them & carry on with your work & some one will come to you & break the ice maybe a new male will start at your works & see you & hey presto, stay in there girl, D.F;

Answer 3

It is my opinion that we teach people how to treat us on a daily basis. If you have feelings of anxiety, doubt, and low self-esteem, essentially people are going to treat you in a less than respectful manner. Respect of self begins on the inside, and the confidence that you feel from that self-respect radiates to the outside..and draws people to you.

I would suggest that you begin to mediate a bit each day. You can quiet your mind and access your heart. Once you make a communion or relationship with yourself on the inside, and begin to feel good about yourself, you will be surprised how your outer world will open up for the better.

Answer 4

are you looking for good working relationship or a boy friend ? If good working relationship work hard and help others if you are able, if you wont a boyfriend flirt like crazy