Boyfriend told me the other day that nothing lasts forever including relationships and we too someday will part...he asked me if I see myself growing old with him, I said maybe. He mentioned jokingly that when I graduate from college in May that he will let the realtionship fizzle out...but he said he was just kidding. He then asked "do you think we will have a love child?"..... He also said that he probaly should not be telling me because I would think something i should not and think that he was trying to tell me something like he does not want to be with me...but that is how i felt after he said these things. what should I do or think now? we have been dating for almost a year.
2007-01-02 05:14:49 · 9 answers · asked by EVADIVA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you ever heard of "many a true word said in jest"? sounds like your bf is backing out of the responsibility of a committment... i would be reconsidering my options and opening my horizons if i were you.
2007-01-02 05:18:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eh, sounds like he's unsure of where your relationship is going and seems rather pessimistic about it. Graduation from college is a big deal, and perhaps he's trying to feel you out and see where you want to take the relationship. Either way, it sounds like it's time for a good old status update... figure out where you stand, and whether or not you have a future together after May.
2007-01-02 13:18:27 · answer #2 · answered by wnk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a looser, how many Girlfriends did he have before u??? That should explain you quite a bit!!
And ther is one thing, love does last for a life time, I think that is forever for that person. Forever is mostly used for as long as you live. not for as long as the world stands.
Even if it was used for as long as the world excists, in that situation here, there will allways be love.
Love never gives up, it's faith, hope, and patience never fail.
2007-01-02 13:21:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is crap. He don't mean what he says. He don't say what he means. He kids about everything, he's probably a kid at heart when dealing relationship.
Since he's a crap, treat him like crap, talk to him like a crap. You can say "hey.. someone says you are handsome!! my grandmum!" "i have something to tell you.. i had a fling today.." he will probably be angry, but tell him that's how you feel with him.
And have a heart-to-heart talk with him, and tell him he sucks.
2007-01-02 13:23:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First congrats on next May finishing college....
Second, dump the bum and enjoy your last semester in college....
2007-01-02 13:18:15 · answer #5 · answered by D. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i have to same promblum i think u should dump him he can not give you a nice answer
2007-01-02 13:19:50 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sound like quite a loser- do you really want to be with someone like this?
2007-01-02 13:18:45 · answer #7 · answered by MeaCulpa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the answeras messed you up and talk to him
2007-01-02 13:17:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
...a love child? hahahahahahaha
2007-01-02 13:17:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋