He came to work, that was why he is even here. He lives with us and works helping my father icause my father is self employed doing gardening.
Ok, but after 1 year that he's been here with us, he is starting to find friends and people and just wants to be free and roam around even till late at night, he hangs out with strangers, and goes into strangers houses and he gossips so much about everything. We ARE NOT ThAT KIND of people .we are peaceful and we settle at home at 8pm and that's it.
Yesterday he left with some strangers and didn't come until 12 at night....I keep telling him to stop being a Wacko, and to calm down and stay home but he gets eeasily lured by the people he meets. Anyway, he's not respecting our rules. He didn't come here to do what he wants, we just let him live here and be here so he can make some money.
My father is so tired of him doing this crap , me too...
What do you do when a person wants to do what he wants when it's not even his house.....
2007-01-02 05:14:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Well, you applied your rules to him and welcomed into YOUR home and he did not do what was asked of him. Simply tell him the choices he is making, makes your family values look bad to others. That you are proud of what you built up and will not allow him to tear it down. Being american and caucausian myself and seeing some of the problems in our world against hispanic it's hard to be accepted by many. Either he abides by your family rules or he is ouf of there!!! It's called tough love!!! Much goo luck to you and God Bless!!!
2007-01-02 05:28:17 · answer #1 · answered by craftylady 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with everything you said, valid points. I think what ESPN means is, Kobe and MJ want to are very competitive, more so than most NBA players (which I do think is true). When Dirk didn't make the playoffs this year, it seemed as if he just kind of shrugged it off, and used the "there is always next year" mentality. Kobe fought and scratched and clawed until his team was in a position to be in the playoffs. Switching his score first mentality to pass and rebound mentality ( look at the numbers and you will see he has passed more this year than any other year). Kobe would have NEVER been okay with not making the playoffs, but it seemed as if dirk didn't care this year. And I'm an enormous Maverick and Dirk fan, have been my whole life. I'm assuming your over the age of 15 due to your knowledge of the game, so you probably saw Jordan play. His will was simply more than any other player in the NBA, maybe in sports period. He also played with the flu, and through many injuries. Although it is annoying I do think Kobe and MJ's will to win and competitiveness is more than most. Maybe not everyone, but most.
2016-05-23 06:39:26 · answer #2 · answered by Jeanette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They need to move out ASAP even our children when you live in someone Else's house you must respect there house rules if you don't like it then moved. When our kids were 18 and still home all we asked was that they call if they would be late sometimes response was I am grown and mine was well then move your grown butt out. Sounds like your cousin is making a lot of bad decisions and he could bring trouble to your family by his association with strangers. there are a lot of bad people out there give him an ultimatum or put him out good luck
2007-01-02 05:39:59 · answer #3 · answered by katlady927 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pack his stuff and send him back home. Explain to him the reasons why. Your father needs to do this. You don't need anyone living in your home tht is not respecting the house rules.
2007-01-02 05:18:11 · answer #4 · answered by stringhead3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a person, not just your slave worker. It sounds like you are trying to control him. if he does his job and helps your father thats all you should be concerned with. I think its ridiculous that you tell him he has to be home by 8pm. Thats insane to tell a grown adult. Treat him like a person, and if i were him I would tell you to shove it up your you know what, cause thats just wrong to try to control a grown man. And if I were this man I would also move out of your house because thats not the kind of environment i would want to live it. Try to be a little more understand of him. Do you not have friends or people you would like to hang out with. And what exactly do you mean you aren't "THAT KIND OF PERSON".... you mean you aren't the type of person that likes having a life and living to the fullest (even if it means staying out past your bedtime) - jeez even my 4 year old son goes to bed later than that.
2007-01-02 05:20:29 · answer #5 · answered by TOO MUCH TO THINK ABOUT 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Simple charge him rent. If he pays it fine he can stay if not send him back. I he pays rent it will mean he will have to work more and party less.
2007-01-02 05:30:45 · answer #6 · answered by mustanglaser94 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be upfront w/ him let him know what the rules are and that he is going back if he dont follow such rules
2007-01-02 05:28:59 · answer #7 · answered by starlight♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is he here legally?
If not, do us all a favor and send him back.
2007-01-02 05:21:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
report him to the migra.
2007-01-02 05:26:27 · answer #9 · answered by corona 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋