hello friends,
your small advice make my life more beautiful.
i am an indian, and after 1 week i will meet a girl for marriage.she is coming from usa, basically she is from gujrat and live in usa from last 3 years, this is my first time, i am so narvous, coz i am very shy boy and generally not talking with girl,and another prob is that i don't know her language very well, there is only one common language between us and that is our mother tongue. what should i do? about which thing i should ask her so i can understand her easily, bcoz hardly i have only 20 min to talk with her and can i request her that we can talk in mother tongue?
2007-01-02 05:09:30 · 8 answers · asked by kapudhanani 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Kem cho, nervous nahi thavanu yaar, just chill!
Ask her questions, but don't seem like you're interviewing her. Ask her about her hobbies, favorite foods, what's it like living in the US, bollywood, family. Write down at least 10 questions in advance and practice them with a family member or friend. Think of good questions. Also tell her a few things about yourself. Like your interests, career, family, ideal love life, etc.
email her if you can.. 20 mins isnt enough!
best of luck, thamne English comfortable nathi lagtu to Gujarati ma bol. Vathare comfort level aavse thamrare bane mate.
2007-01-02 05:18:20 · answer #1 · answered by cuteami78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try a few ice breakers, maybe you don't have to talk in your mother tongue, if possible in USA you get Indian Drama's perhaps you can break the ice by asking her a question in English that way she knows you can speak English, and can cope in the USA if you need to move there. Best thing to ask to break the ice properly is something about Indian soaps, like Kahaani Ghar Ghar Kii, cause they have it in USA too. And just find out what sorts of things she likes, don't ask what she does for a living straight away, she'll think you're a gold digger, best to leave that for later, find out her interests and what type of person she is.
2016-05-23 06:38:42 · answer #2 · answered by Jeanette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have a happy and long marriage if you meet her needs as a woman and if she meets your needs as a man.
1. Ask her what does she want/expect from her husband.
2. Ask her what her hobbies are. Does she like to read, watch movies, go bike riding? Hopefully she will like something that you like too, and then you will have something to talk about.
3.Ask her what you can do to make her a happy wife. And then tell her what she can do to make you a happy husband.
Good Luck.
2007-01-02 05:16:55 · answer #3 · answered by kamille_elle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you should probably just stick with the basics, like what she likes to do and mayabe find out what you may have in common. Since, it is an arranged marriage you don't know a whole lot about her, so try and find out as much as you can about her in the time you.
2007-01-02 05:16:10 · answer #4 · answered by angelicasongs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Certainly ask if you can converse in your native language. Ask her what type of hobbies she has, what her favorite foods are, if she likes movies, etc. Whether you are going to be married or not, these are great "basic" information questions to ask anyone to get them talking!
2007-01-02 05:13:16 · answer #5 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, ask her if she wants to marry you or is being forced. Its wrong to marry if you both don't want it. If she is ok with the way things were arranged for you both, ask her about her dreams. What she wants to do with her life. If she wants children.
2007-01-02 05:18:30 · answer #6 · answered by Velken 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she would like to read the Kama Sutra together.
2007-01-02 05:13:48 · answer #7 · answered by WMD 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Ask her if you can bang her in the backseat of your car. Tell her all the girls do it.
2007-01-02 05:11:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋