If your partner/lover/crush...didnt want to talk to you much...or if they didnt want to have sex much???..........................................
people say that sex isnt that important....well just how important is it to you...what would make you feel worse....???
Oh and this isnt a personal dilemna so no advise please...im just curious about people and how we think...;0)
2007-01-02 05:03:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would say that they wouldn't be intersted anymore, and wants to break up but feels bad... Sex is important to keep the marriage strong, but some peopl eneed more sex than others. ... it depends on the couple I suppose. But not wanting to talk to them is a big red flag for any relationship
2007-01-02 05:07:01 · answer #1 · answered by TOO MUCH TO THINK ABOUT 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ehhhh.... i think i would be worried bout both...
communication is vital in a relationship, but part of a relationship is also a physical side of things...
i think i'd be more worried bout the not talking bit than the lack of sex... dont take me wrong, i LOVE sex, but if there is an issue, then that can be sorted out by talking and hopefully solving the problem. if my partner wouldnt be talking, then i think the relationship is doomed to fail, as has happened to me in the past
so i vote for lack of talking as worse
is there gonna be a report after your research??? *grin*
2007-01-02 05:37:20 · answer #2 · answered by Blind Wing 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
believe it or not....and I cannot believe I'm saying this..but I can deal with them not wanting to have sex much.....god,did I just say that???...but when they do not want to talk to you that can't be a good sign...
To me sex is very important but if you're not communicating then I don't think that relationship is on solid ground.
2007-01-02 05:12:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My partner is a very quiet person to begin with, so not talking so much is no big problem. However if the sex was to come to a drastic slow-down then we have a major problem Houston!!!!!!
2007-01-02 05:18:30 · answer #4 · answered by "N"saysable 1iric 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats a hard one cas i guess they are both really important in a relationship. If you wasnt talking but still had sex I supose you'd feel abit used but if you was talking and did'nt have sex I suppose you'd start feeling abit confused-I'd prob start thinkin he was having an affair! lol! But then if you was talking you could always ask him why you both wernt having sex! lol
2007-01-02 05:11:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
speaking as a female i would be more concerned if my boyfriend didn't want to have sex as although he does try to be a good communicator like most blokes he does talk a lot less then women do. but he does love sex so id definitely be more worried if he didn't want to have sex!!!
2007-01-02 05:20:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i,d miss the sex more. its a big part of a relationship, but then again so is talking, but i,d still say sex.
2007-01-02 05:07:36 · answer #7 · answered by jo w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talking i think. Loss of interest in sex could be tiredness,stress or ilness, but to stop communicating would be far more worrying.
2007-01-02 05:06:57 · answer #8 · answered by Georgie's Girl 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It would worry me more if my wife did not talk to me much, our whole relationship is based on knowing each others feelings.
2007-01-02 05:07:50 · answer #9 · answered by MUSHMAN 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
need to be able to have a chat ..... got half a chance of talking them into a legover that way!!!
age affects labido so that re-enforces need to communicate prob is you girlies don't understand our tender loving grunts
2007-01-02 05:12:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋