ok so ive been 'talking' to this guy for about a month now, somethin like that. he just got out of a relationship n says he doesnt want one right now cuz he doesnt want to hurt me if later on he decides he doesnt want a relationship. i said ok thats fine, i dont really want a relationship right now either. well the other day we were hangin out at the bar n one of his friends said somethin, n he goes 'r u hitting on my gf?" i was surprised, n since then all his friends call me his gf n call him my bf....i dont know wuts goin on here!
2007-01-02 04:45:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have every reason to be confused. This guy obviously is. Possessive and confused can be a dangerous combination.
2007-01-02 04:50:57 · answer #1 · answered by pure_genius 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT FEED IN!!!!!!!!
Just keep things exactly the way they are if they say that tell them hes not by man hes my friend make sure your clear because thats how we as women get sucked in and the next thing hell be saying is that he never wanted a relationship so dont get caught up keep it friendship until he makes the move and means it be stern and firm and the most important dont give him any make him wait the thing about men is that they may not want u but they dont want to see u with anyone else either so dont put your eggs in one basket if hes not ready please talk to other people.
2007-01-02 12:50:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He claimed you so no one else could!! Men are like that....if you still dont want a relationship then tak with him and if you do maybe you need to find out the terms of your relationship...u know just u and him or is it casual dating so you can date others. I am only saying cause I have been there once before and it can get not only confusing but messy!!
2007-01-02 12:49:57 · answer #3 · answered by princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you replied with "I'm nobodies girlfriend!". After the speech he gave you, I wouldn't of let him get away with that, your not easy are you? If he just got out of a relationship, and jumping right into another, he's playing you, cuz chances are it's not going to work. People need time. He's playing you like your desperate, but I am sure you already felt that!!!! Your the only one in control of you!!!
2007-01-02 12:55:22 · answer #4 · answered by sue d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to find out what is going on is by asking him. He seems to feel threatened by his friends and at times jealousy might be good. Just go with the flow and see where it goes.
2007-01-02 12:51:27 · answer #5 · answered by Melissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he likes you more than what e says. He probably tells you he is not wanting a relationship and that helps him keep his wall up. He likes you enough to let everyone else know he likes you, ut he is not ready to take that extra step personally.
2007-01-02 12:58:22 · answer #6 · answered by live, love, laugh often! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's interested in you being his gf. Or maybe he dun wan other guys toking to you.I think he likes you to sumkind of degree.If not,he wouldn't be talking to u for a month unless he's a good fren o urs. Otherwise at the bar,he may have gotten himself drunk n was talking gibberish?
2007-01-02 12:51:23 · answer #7 · answered by lemondevil88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED TO SET HIS FRIENDS STRAIGHT AND TELL THEM HE ISNT YOUR BF. HE CANNOT HAVE HIS CAKE AND EAT IT TOO. HE DOESNT WANT THE RELATIONSHIP BUT HE DOESNT WANT YOU TO GO GET ONE EITHER. IT WAS BASICALLY HIM TELLING YOU ONE THING AND THEN HIM TELLING OTHERS ANOTHER SO THEY WONT ACT INTERESTED IN YOU AND YOU WILL STAY WITH HIM THE WAY THINGS ARE.
2007-01-02 12:50:08 · answer #8 · answered by becca_2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time he does something like this say: hey, we are friends so dont cut my chances of getting a cute guy! and let's see what he says!!!
2007-01-02 13:15:52 · answer #9 · answered by chikis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's like when a cat urinates on a spot to mark it it's property that's what he considers you without the effort!
2007-01-02 12:47:40 · answer #10 · answered by Irie 123 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋