is it ok to fart in front of your husband/bf?

Question

since I was a little girl I've been told NOT to fart, blow my nose etc in front of someone else... but I'm getting older (27) and now I'm dealing with gastritis and i feel like my stomach is a bomb for all the gas I have inside so whenever I have the chance to fart (trust me, it barely happens) I have to take advantage of it! I got a super mega infection last friday for eating pizza and I ended up in the hospital ok? my doctor gave me like 4 different kind of medicine for my problem and yesterday I couldnt stop farting and the doctor told me It was totally ok and that i had to release all the gas but even though I explained my bf (we've been living together for 5 years) that I had no control over it and EVEN THOUGH he said it was ok with him, I feel so bad for farting in front of him, a) because I'm a girl and b) because i was told not to do it in front of anyone!

should I feel so ashamed about it? do you think he will find me gross?

Answer 1

No you should not feel ashamed nor should he find you gross. It is a normal bodily function. Everyone does it.

You stated that he had no problem with it, so why should he find you gross? I'm sure he understands.

Hope everything turns out ok for ya

Answer 2

Hey, my parents told me the same thing and trouble me for quite some time till I grown up............and notice that it's normal just like your doctor told you : It's normal to release the gas ! Unless you are not human being ! Relax, I do that since my husband was still my boyfriend and he said the same thing : Unless you are not human being !!! (of course I try not to do that in public !)
Good luck for you stomach and your love life!

Answer 3

as nasty and disgusting as it sounds......it is better if he finds out himself rather than someone else telling him