2007-01-02 04:38:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well depends on what the circumstances are. I dated a guy 4 months back who I was official with and we had a wonderful relationship and then he had to leave for Africa for a 19-day leave for the Reserves. When he came back, we had the perfect day and he just went on and on about how much i meant to him. The next day he never called me again. & no! I did not sleep with him that night either! lol- But sometimes you'll end up meeting guys who honestly are Effed up on the inside. Some get scared of feelings, while others don't know how to handle theirs. --This guy is now back in my life after 4 months of never talking to him, and he's starting to repeat the same cycle. This time however, I'm not with him officially, and I barely give him the time of day. Some guys you just have to realize that they are going to leave and you'll have to prepare yourself for that. Just read "He's just not into you" It's a girls Bible my friend! And honestly it makes a girl relationship smart to where they call all the shots. Instincts sometimes hurt, but they're usually always true. Just accept the fact, and try to be a indestructable hardass about it. I promise you the sooner you take an initiative, the sooner these wounds will heal.
However, if it is a mad-passionate ordeal where they live long-distance, talk about possibilities of seeing each other. I fell hard for a guy on a cruise once, and we split airline fees and it was just overall excitement and adrenaline of the whole expeirence!
Best of luck,
A "Beautiful Disaster"
2007-01-02 04:46:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Erm.. i'm in a similar situation as yours,except that i'm a guy.If you like a guy u should know who his friends are right? When he is with his friends, go up to them and ask for all their numbers by saying'Hey,i'm XXX and i'm trying to get as much phone numbers as possible,so can you all help?' Usually guys will give their numbers easily.
2007-01-02 12:48:20 · answer #2 · answered by advisor 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let fate and destiny decide. If he is yours, he will eventually return to your side one of these days. Wish you good luck.
2007-01-02 12:42:20 · answer #3 · answered by Daffodil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say, "Been nice knowin' ya" and move on. Life's too short, Toots.
2007-01-02 12:42:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him straight up no holding back...
and let him knw that you dont want him to leave maybe even just grab him and kiss him
2007-01-02 12:41:10 · answer #5 · answered by Caitlin S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
plant one right on his lips and get his cell number in one swift ninja move
2007-01-02 12:39:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get his number and e-mail address.
2007-01-02 14:28:38 · answer #7 · answered by Justine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know,and c what he does about it?(might exchange digits)
2007-01-02 12:42:17 · answer #8 · answered by Baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to see him and see what happens. if it doesnt them at least you tried.
2007-01-02 12:43:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go up to him and say, "Can I have your babies?"
2007-01-02 12:41:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋