There's a girl that I've know for over 2 years. We started off as lovers then I reduced it to friends. For the next 2 years we had a good friendship. No romance, just a good friendship. Eventually she decided to start seeing someone else since our relationship wasn't advancing. I also started seeing other people. After a month I told her I was in love with her. When I told her that she was still involved with someone else. After a while, the guy she was dating stopped coming around because of my presence and she's back with me. It's been about a month now and we are at a different level than ever before. We spend a lot more time together. We talk about getting married, living together and stuff like that. I spent the night with her a lot. However, we haven't been intimate yet and we haven't had that many passionate kisses. See tells me that she has to get use to the new more romantic me, because for 2 years we were just friends. Is this normal? How can I deal with this?
2007-01-02 04:28:03 · 7 answers · asked by Northstarr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some girls hold grudges. I’m at a point now where 2 guys who I was head-over-heels for at one point and they wouldn’t give me the time of day, are now madly pursuing me. I’ve went on a lot of dates with them, but I realized I have the hardest time opening up to them because I honestly don’t trust them, because they messed my heart up badly. Sometimes you try to make things work, but that gut feeling you have from when they once broke your heart, will always be there. I wish you the best and I just hope that she has not turned into a “Beautiful Disaster” such as myself. :o)
2007-01-02 04:39:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see a problem. Did you ever think that she might be afraid of loosing you again. You can't blame her for taking things slow. If you really want to be intimate with her then why don't you make the move. Just go with the flow and don't rush into anything. Enjoy the company.
2007-01-02 04:40:32 · answer #2 · answered by Melissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its only been one month since you started dating again, maybe she just wants to take things slow this time and doesnt want to be intimate with you yet, its perfectly normal for a girl to feel like that. it doesnt mean that she likes you any less.
take things slower with her and dont talk about getting intimate for a while. just have fun and get to know eachother as boyfriend and girlfriend
2007-01-02 04:32:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you both are on the right path. She will get used to the new you, especially if she loves you. You both have something that most people can not find in a lifetime. That is how my husband and I are. We couldn't be happier. Best of luck to the both of you.
2007-01-02 04:34:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Patience. It really could be that she's trying to determine if she feels the same way about you. Don't pressure her. In fact, put just a little distance between you and see if she comes your way. That will tell you what you need to know.
2007-01-02 04:32:52 · answer #5 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...that's a little comfusing for someone. If you were friends for two years. So far I would just go with her word. Listen to her and take it slow. Give her time.
2007-01-02 04:33:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is and be patient and you will get teh whole cake and icing real soon. SO don't fret start kissing more and soon making lvoe more.
2007-01-02 04:33:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋