just moved to new town.i feel alone,had lost of friends back home,i miss clubbing,going out.....can you give me some poinnters as to what should i do o find new friends (or even more than that,meet some cute guys,i am a total flirt and i miss it).Help me,i feel so alone here.Give me some tips
2007-01-02 03:57:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When I moved to a new state by myself for a new job about 2 1/2 years ago, I was in the same situation. First I decided to get a new hobby, so I joined a local gym which will give you plenty to do during the week. Then I started going out the the local bars by myself, which is difficult at first but, gets easier the more you do it. I really just started by chatting up the people who work at the bars. Now I work out about 5-6 days a week, and most people actually think that I'm the bouncer at a couple bars because I'm always hanging out the bartenders and stuff. It is funny but, it seems more random people approach me, after they see half of the bar come over and say hi to me. Good luck! I know how tough it is relocating to a new area!
2007-01-02 04:20:41 · answer #1 · answered by drakekse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For making girlfriends, I'd say look around and take a belly dance class. :) Honestly, it is a blast, and you meet a bunch of women, which is great, chances are, you'll make at least one good friend out of that. I made three good new friends when I did that. From there, you start hanging out with them...they introduce you to other friends...whammo! A whole new social circle. Plus, these girls like to dance, right? Suggest that you go out clubbing some night, a great place to work on your new dances moves. Which should also draw attention from guys. :)
The local gym for picking up people and flirting? Yeesh. I know I just wanna work out and get it over with when I'm there. For picking up guys in general...just pay attention when you're out. Does the waiter stay and chat with you much longer then necessary for his job? Does the cute guy at the coffeehouse you frequent smile at you ever so often and say hi? Just be aware and keep your eyes open for it.
2007-01-02 12:14:32 · answer #2 · answered by Rebecca C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok hun, this is what I think you should do. First start by going to the mall or a shopping store. (make sure that you good, you can find cute guys just about everywhere) The next place would to go to the bars and clubs. Go for a drive. Walk around the town, flaunt what you have. You will be getting guys left and right. Go to the tanning salons, you would be surprised in how many guys go there and who are straight. These are just some things that you could do.
2007-01-02 12:07:09 · answer #3 · answered by Britney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you certainly can start at the bars...but I'm not sure that's the place you REALLY want to find a nice guy...check into the local health club...lots of people there to hang with and get to know...
2007-01-02 12:00:06 · answer #4 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont stay home.Try to be wake up because u gatta to study verey well the place u leave.
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2007-01-02 14:13:59 · answer #5 · answered by fifilica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋