i just found out that my wife licked the strippers privates at her bachelorette party 2 years ago. a friend of mine said she couldnt stand it anymore and showed me a picture of it on her cell phone. what would your next step be if you found out? what i dont understand is that i am a former model- i have been in catalogs for macys, abercrombie poster, my university calander--that guy was nothing and she did this
2007-01-02 03:50:54 · 11 answers · asked by collegeguy09 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Guess you get to go get your face in some to even the playing field.
What does your wife say about this?
2007-01-02 04:06:49 · answer #1 · answered by dr_greybeard 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Your "friend" is probably trying to make you mad at your wife, and she is probably interested in you, herself. This sounds like a classic Sneaky Girl Trick to take a man. Your wife was probably drunk and caught up in the moment. The real question is, have you had a good marriage with her over the past two years? Give her a break for being wild at her bachelorette party, if she has been faithful to you ever since. I'm sure she didn't mean anything by it. Another good question is why has your "friend" kept this pic on her cell for two years. Sounds to me like she was just waiting for the opportune time to try to break you up. I say don't let her do it!
2007-01-02 13:28:54 · answer #2 · answered by vin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the combination of alcohol and all the girls egging her on probably didn't help. I would talk to her about it. I completely understand being upset with her... but it was two years ago. I'm sure she regrets it (if she even remembers doing it). That 'friend' that saved the picture on her phone for 2 years is anything but a friend. She is just trying to cause trouble, you and your wife do not need to talk to her anymore. It's sad that you are learning about this now but your marriage is strong enough to get past this. Talk to your wife, she will tell you it was a HUGE mistake.
2007-01-02 12:44:19 · answer #3 · answered by *Just Married* 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She's not right for what she did, by any stretch of the imagination, even if she was just showing off for her friends. It's no better than if a married/engaged guy goes to the Champaigne room at a strip club.
Also, just because you used to be a model, doesn't mean she will be faithful. Don't you know anyone who has cheated with someone less attractive than their spouse? My mom used to model, and my dad cheated with a woman much less attractive.
2007-01-02 12:21:50 · answer #4 · answered by Lady in Red 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Imagine the setting before you get too upset. All her friends were around, egging her on. It was probably loud, chaotic and just a festive time. She did what she was expected to do. The friend who told you was wrong to do that. It was a harmless one-time thing, I'm guessing. Let it go. Let it all the way go, because if you let it eat at you, it could potentially ruin your marriage.
2007-01-02 12:54:17 · answer #5 · answered by Happy Wife 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
confront her about it. you have the right to. the stuff about being a former model means nothing. you could be gods gift to women, it doesnt matter. you sound conceited by bringing that up, but she had no right to cheat on you, especially at the party. it would make me wonder if shes done anything since. talk to her about it and see what she says. if you have no reason to believe she would do anything since then I guess you could try to work something out, but if you suspect shes still been up to no good then get out and move on.
2007-01-02 12:18:43 · answer #6 · answered by Jenn ♥Cadence Jade's mum♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good grief - this was TWO years ago and the woman was probably drunk or was dared by her friends, one of them being this lovely lady who is trying to work a wedge between the two of you - has she been licking anyone else's privates besides yours since then???? if not, forget about it!!!! tell your friend to study the pic really closely - maybe she can learn a few tips instead of bitching about something that was - and still is - absolutely none of her business, like your relationship with your wife.
2007-01-02 13:35:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was 2 years ago, my guess is she wasn't thinking and she was wasted, and she still married you, its not that big of a deal really. Are you willing to give up your marriage for one lick. And who is this so called "friend", that was not up to her to show you. I find that messed up in its own right. Sounds more like she is trying to break you guys up if you wask me.
2007-01-02 13:28:34 · answer #8 · answered by TOO MUCH TO THINK ABOUT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it was 2 years ago...let it go...i would be wondering why my friend felt the need to show ME the pictures that are 2 years old, she may be hoping you will dump the wife and pick up with her...she is not a friend but a loser
2007-01-02 12:08:40 · answer #9 · answered by lost 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
first of all, she was probably drinking, and probably egged on by the same "friend" who decided to take and then show that picture!! Lots of people do stupid stuff like that at bachelor/bachellorette parties
2007-01-02 14:43:31 · answer #10 · answered by Chrys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would confront her about it.....could be that she had too much to drink, etc. You can't just ignore this, it will create resentment and mistrust. You need to get this out and the open and talk about it like adults.
Good luck!
2007-01-02 12:35:30 · answer #11 · answered by AmyB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋