2007-01-02 03:46:59 · 18 answers · asked by R.I.P. LOCS 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to not only break up with him, but go to a counselor or family member about your problems with cutting and this abusive relationship. They can give you help as to what to do next, and safety tips...abusive boyfriends often have a hard time letting go....he most likely isn't going to be very happy about you breaking up with him. Also, REMEMBER, you are a wonderful, amazing creature....don't let anyone ever make you feel less than what you truely are: a miracle, not an accident. You were created to a "T." Goodluck, I wish you a happy, healthy life.....
2007-01-02 03:52:49 · answer #1 · answered by Meg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you leave him, you're going to probably miss him and continue cutting yourself. If you have any nice guys around you or any cool guys you can remember from your past that will be open to you, try going to them for help.
This really sucks, but it may be difficultto leave him until you can find a BETTER replacement.
Worse case scenario, you'll leave him and end up with someone just as bad as him.
The cutting can stop.
2007-01-02 11:52:09 · answer #2 · answered by shiroi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in your shoes. My ex really knew how to get in my head and screw with me. He knew how to control me. I cut myself when we were together because it was the only pain that I could control. But I got out of the relationship because I realized that he wasn't worth it. He wasn't worth hurting myself over. But that didn't stop him. He tried to kill me. Literally! Even after he married someone else he tracked me down (by then I lived on the other side of the state) and tried to get me to run off to Vegas with him behind his wife's back! You have to snap out of it! You only get one body. Take care of it! There will always be another guy. A better one! You don't need therapy. You just need to muster up some bravery and leave him. It will be better when it's over, trust me.
2007-01-02 11:55:23 · answer #3 · answered by Snow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut yourself because of a boyfriend. Young lady, you don't need a boyfriend. You need some love in your life from family and friends.
Bow your head and pray. Father in Jesus' name, have mercy on me. Come into my life and straighten my life up. I am confused and I need your strength. Change my thinking Lord. In Jesus' name I ask. Amen
Find a Bible and start reading it in the Book of John in the New Testament.
2007-01-02 11:53:06 · answer #4 · answered by Jeancommunicates 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had this problem too. my boyfriend used to hit me and i was miserable and didn't know what to do. i know exactly how you feel. i was afraid to break up with him because i knew he would get violent. but sooner or later i got the courage to leave him and he cried. YES. he cried. but if youre unhappy get out of the relationship now. hope that helped. and maybe you should see a doctor for your cutting problem. or talk to someone about it.
2007-01-02 11:52:32 · answer #5 · answered by LKG 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
run away...as fast and as far as you need to go to get help from people that will care about you and take care of you until your head is cleared from the damage caused by this guy or damage caused before you got together with this guy. Until you are better stay away from relationships
2007-01-02 11:50:43 · answer #6 · answered by J-Dub 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave the bad situation and get professional counseling. Why do you torture yourself for him? To thine own self be true.
2007-01-02 11:50:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
then stop being with him.. enjoy being single .. you'll learn more about youself.. and other deep hidden reasons why you are hurting yourself..
maybe you should try and talk to someone about the cutting.. contact your dr's.. and i'm sure they will help you find someone yuo can talk too
2007-01-02 11:55:35 · answer #8 · answered by steph 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut HIM instead. And get out of that relationship!
2007-01-02 11:51:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if the relation is driving u crazy and if u r not married nor engage to the person u just have to leave the person.
2007-01-02 11:52:06 · answer #10 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋