I'm a guy and I got into an argument with my friend about 7 months ago. My buddy is a bit of a drama queen and he likes to create controversy among all of us. He also is good at manipulating others when it comes to having my friends take sides in an argument. Now, this argument between the two of us was over something stupid and it got even more tense due to the fact alcohol was involved. We both said things out of anger and stopped talking to each other. I tried on a few occasions to reach out to my friend to see if we could hang out and mend our friendship. He has not replied, in fact he's done nothing but ignore me. I've heard from some of my other friends and he's trying to pin them against me. I don't like this. I feel like I'm begging someone to be my friend and it feels pathetic. Do I try reaching out to him one more time or do I drop him as a friend?
2007-01-02 03:46:41 · 4 answers · asked by Snuggles123 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should never have to beg a friend to be yoru friend, or forgive you. Friends don't need coaxing, they would just forgive and forget. He isn't a real friend, and it's obvious that he is trying to make this worse than it already is by dragging other people into it. Yes, he's a drama queen. It's time to write this one off. Be the bigger person, and move on. Someone who behaves like this, and takes your friendship so lightly, isn't someone worth getting upset over. Time to move on. Just blow it off.
2007-01-02 03:49:57 · answer #1 · answered by nottashygirl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time to let it go. Why would you want someone like that as a friend anyway? It's hard to let go of friends that you care about. But really he has caused nothing but drama. And obviously your other friends feel the same way. Maybe mention to your friends the next time they tell you of his manipulation tactics. Tell them to tell him to GROW UP that they are adults and can make their own decisions and to stop the mind games. If its coming from them, maybe he'll actually be inclined to recognize his ways. Unless your friends are mindless sheep, in that case maybe you should hang out with new people all together! Good luck
2007-01-02 11:56:41 · answer #2 · answered by RitzFitz29 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let it go. If he tries to apologize to you, move on from there. But if not, he wasn't the kinda friend you needed to have, and you're better off without him. You need to try fixing things with your other friends. And hey, just a little more advice; drinking may be fine at the time, but something you regret always comes from it.
2007-01-02 11:55:10 · answer #3 · answered by eLiZaBeTh 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont think u shud try n reach out to him any more. this friendship was a onesided friendship. he never cared, tleast this is wat i feel after going thru ur story. n u cannot clap with one hand, it takes to hands to clap in the same way its good that uve taken the first step to mend ur relationship with him, but also he shud come forward.this is wat fell the rest is left upto u.its u who has to take the final decision.
2007-01-02 11:52:22 · answer #4 · answered by cacorreia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋