I am 24, have 3 kids ages 6, 3 and 1.5 yrs old., my sex life is not the same, I am scared of becoming pregnant My poor husband is the only one really suffering due to lack of sex. My sex drive just isn't the same. Please tell me what to do.
2007-01-02 03:42:47 · 10 answers · asked by Elisa A 1 in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
why don't you guys get a visectomy (get your tubes tied) only if you plan on not having any more kids. Also i hear they can hold your husbands sperm if he get the visectomy and if you want another kid too
2007-01-02 03:52:03 · answer #1 · answered by macdacat147 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What's the worst thing that can happen if you get pregnant? You'll have another child? So what?
Be around a few babies and volunteer to hold them. and talk to mothers with five or more children. There's absolutly nothing wrong with having a big family.
If anyone criticizes you for having so many children, it may be because they are infertile and jealous. Or maybe they're jealous because you're a good mother, and they aren't so good with children.
If you have money worries, talk about those with your husband. Better to write them out first. See if money is really that tight, and if so, find out what you can sell.
Other than money, the only problem I can see with having so many children is that they get in the way of a sex life.
but, if you have money, you can always get a babysitter. Have you and your husbad been to see a movie or have dinner, just the two of you, recently?
2007-01-02 04:14:28 · answer #2 · answered by dude 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Use some form of birth control so you don't have to worry about getting pregnant. Then, just relax. Sometimes stress, pressure, and expectations can cause a decrease in sex drive.
2007-01-02 03:51:14 · answer #3 · answered by Michael J 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Obviously, you need to use some form of birth control, assuming you don't want to become pregnant again, if thats the reason why you are scared to have sex.
If you don't have a doc, go to your city or county health dept. you can get free birth control pills
2007-01-02 03:52:24 · answer #4 · answered by Lane 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Becoming a lesbian or having sex with animals not belonging to the human species are two more ways of avoiding pregnancy while still having a hot sex life.
2007-01-02 03:51:08 · answer #5 · answered by ChingoBling 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
IUD's are one of the most efficient form of birth control...its really easy and you don't have to change it or anything, like nuva ring or anything.
go online and compare some methods of birth control to others. you will be amazed how easy and simple some methods are!!
2007-01-02 03:51:27 · answer #6 · answered by Val 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Have you and your husband decided not to have any more children? If so, why not get your tubes (or his) tied. For woman I believe that they clamp them and it can be reversed. Ask your doctor first.
2007-01-02 03:52:18 · answer #7 · answered by moobiemuffin 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you've paid your dues....
Ask your husband to get a vasectomy. It's his turn.
2007-01-02 03:52:13 · answer #8 · answered by Sam 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I guess that there is always anal sex followed by oral sex.
2007-01-02 03:54:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
birthcontrol, condoms,IUD...there are lots of things you can do
2007-01-02 03:47:19 · answer #10 · answered by KP 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋