Hi,
In my high school, lots of guys loves me, and my mom worried about me cuz she doesn't want any thing happen to me. I agree with my mom, how should I stop having guys flirt with me or whatever, Its nice when people notice you but if they asked you out, but I like this guy, he is super nice and sweet. We went out for like 2 weeks and still more guys keep doing stuffs, you know what i'm talking about. I really love my BF but still it bothers me that other guys didn't know or don't listen to me about me having BF and they can't react about it!!! HELP!
2007-01-02 03:39:02 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know my grammar is horrible , let me make it clearly, I don 't flirt with them, I do all of my school works , but not the guys cuz My friends actually found their myspace profile and most guys talk about me, how hot am i, or how cute or whatever its not a treating but i just don't feel right, Cuz I kept telling them that I have BF, plus I'm really popular, but that's is not the reasons. They don't care if i have BF or whoever I have but they just being obessed about me I just don't like it, and I just need your advices and ur helps!!!!!!!!!
Thank you!
P.S. My BF actually trying to kick their *** but nothing works !!!
2007-01-02 03:53:51 · update #1
Oh honey! Been there done that! You need to find your self a strong non jealous man! A man who realizes ur beauty and is ready to deal with the chumps that may try to get in way of you and him! Now there is no stopping the boys that "hit on u" they are boys and they don't take the words NO too well! But if they cross the line like smacking ur butt or something you can get them in alot a trouble and sometimes it takes watching one person get in trouble for the rest to catch on! Other wise you can do an old trick FLIP OUT! lol You maybe to nice or suttle for these boys to understand you don't like them and don't like how they are treating you! so just flip on them! an dmove ur topics fast to make their head spin here are some topics for ur "flipping out" use ur own context but heres ur guide line lol
1 start with hwo they know u or don't know u
2 move on to respect (you can even bring u p womans rights)
3 state a few things about ur boyfriend (u love him we are a couple blah blah)
4 go with the AND WHO ARE U! TO BE SMACKIN MY BUTT or just restate what they did
5 calm ur self down and be like now i would appreciate it if u stop what ur doing if u wanna talk to me talk to me like a normal person other wise ur not getting a second of my time because ur pass just expired with this session! and walk away like nothing happened!
p.s. make sure u use ur hands alot! really get ur message across! good luck!
2007-01-02 03:49:48 · answer #1 · answered by tluckie313 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
change the way you dress. wearing baggy clothes that don't show off what you have is the first step. change your makeup. Wear something that doesn't bring out your eyes or make your lips look so inviting. stop wearing perfume. wear your hair down. If you need to, cut it and make it shoulder length or shorter.
stop trying to attract guys and they will move on to the next girl.
That is except for the guy who was too shy to approach you when you looked so good. He may now be able to approach you. Now, you pay attention to this guy because he may be the nice guy you never saw before. He may not be as pretty as the other guys but he may be nicer and kind.
kind guys are the ones who do the things they do without thinking about them. Like helping the person with the broken car by pushing it out of traffic. holding doors open for people, especially mothers with strollers.
good luck
2007-01-02 03:46:57 · answer #2 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm worried too!
A lot of guys is not a good "tag line" dear.
Your sound like your behavior got you a "label" and a boyfriend is not a "stop sign". Only your actions or reactions are.
You need to ask a trusted male friend "what is being said" about you- honestly. Boys don't just lavish girls with gifts or attention unless they want something or have received it before! They are little hormones and that is only "trouble" for you.
Your MOM should be worried! As a Mom-I would be all over you and retuning your persona to be more professinal and college direected and not boy crazy! You are precious, as my daughter, one of my life's greatest gifts. So listen to Mom- she loves you more than any boy will for many many years.
Trust me on this one! Best wishes.
Model yourself after Audrey Hepburn or another classic woman.
2007-01-02 03:49:42 · answer #3 · answered by Denise W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not something is "unacceptable" because of the fact the previous is the previous and that i stay interior the present. If she's been adventurous, is that a foul element? have you ever been adventurous? have you ever needed to be? right here is the kicker- have you ever needed your lady pal replaced into extra adventurous? I wager you have. look previous her sexual background first. Does she carry down a gentle job? Is she stable together with her money? Does she preserve her company? Can she be relied upon? in case you spot she has stable judgement in all different factors of existence, and she or he's honest and expert, then you definately've hit the lottery. a competent gal who likes getting freaky on social gathering is what maximum adult men dream of. do not enable stupid stuff scare you away once you understand you surely need her that way long-term.
2016-12-15 07:03:21 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try and ignore the other guys or if they do flirt with you just try and ignore then especially if you don't like it. However as it bothers you maybe you could ask your boyfriend to have a word with them so that they know that you are with him and that you are not interested in anyone else. I think that if he does this for you it would be a good idea and they will see that you are not interested in them
2007-01-02 03:44:04 · answer #5 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only because you are putting yourself out there for that. Stop trying to be popualr and just tone it down change your ways become more conservetive and lady like show more attention to your bf and let all that go first and last get into your books first and let the rest fall where it may .
2007-01-02 03:45:29 · answer #6 · answered by miss out spoken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I agree with a previous poster. Other guys throughout your life will never stop flirting with you or bothering you unless you smack them around or you get your boyfriend to stand up and put his foot down. Guys do not and will not give up especially when they want something like a beautifull girl. Man, being beautifull must suck
2007-01-02 03:45:13 · answer #7 · answered by J-Dub 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel I'm in high school to and the same thing was happening to me but then my B/f Finley stood you and beat Some A** that is what your B/f needs to do!
2007-01-02 03:44:17 · answer #8 · answered by hot_cowgirl_1986 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them you have a BF, make sure they know you have one and if they still insist on asking you out then just ignore them and be happy with what you have.
2007-01-02 03:43:47 · answer #9 · answered by Mistervision2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Erm get a life and get on with your studies you Paris Hilton wannabe. Why are all girls so obssessed with boys. You are in school to learn acedamicly not learning how to flirt with guys.
2007-01-02 03:46:11 · answer #10 · answered by brandoleigh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋