Me and my boyfriend have been together for 8 months. We both have had a child from a previous relationship. When me and my boyfriend met I was upfront and clear about the fact that I wanted another child. Isn't it unfair for him to decide now that he isn't sure about having more kids, now that my heart is all in this relationship?
2007-01-02 03:35:56 · 4 answers · asked by Bbee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, if you are already pregnant, then I dont think he has a choice in the matter. You want the child, then HAVE the child. Tell him, you are keeping it, and he needs to deal with this.
2007-01-02 03:41:42 · answer #1 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're already pregnant you have no other choice but to raise this child or give it up for adoption.Abortion should not even be in your head,because condoms and birth control are available in every state and it would be a very selfish thing to do.If you feel you still want to be with this guy who doesn't want a child then give the child up for adoption, there are so many moms and dads who'd love to have a child in there life that they can love as there own.Or leave him and raise your children on your own.
2007-01-02 11:39:18 · answer #2 · answered by DiamondXxx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well isnt 2 kids enough? i mean i want to have kids but im not sure if i want more then 1 kid
2007-01-02 11:38:25 · answer #3 · answered by Dont get Infected 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he knew that giving you his sperm could result in this so obviously he didn't care if you got pregnant or not. have the kid and treat him (or her) well.
2007-01-03 11:22:21 · answer #4 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋