I'm in a long distant relationship with a guy I haven't seen since 6th Oct. We've arranged for me to see him Jan 19th. He's hungup on coming to see me cuz I still live wit my parents so he has to stay in a hotel for 2 nights. The bill altogether equates to around £150. So I normally go stay at his place and he pays for the travel expenses. But he went to copenhagen for the weekend wit his mates, instead of using that money to come see me. You think I've got a point or should he have his fun?
2007-01-02 03:34:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It just shows how he feels about me!! Should I still go see him on 19th?
2007-01-02 03:35:58 · update #1
He went away to copenhagen with a friend from the US who he hasn't seen for years, they went for new yr
2007-01-02 03:41:44 · update #2
He went away to copenhagen with a friend from the US who he hasn't seen for years, they went for new yr
2007-01-02 03:41:53 · update #3
I think if you have not seen him since October 6th...he's not really your boyfriend. You can go see him on the 19th, if you don't have anything better to do...but it seems like what you need to be talking about then is how to work out this geography problem...or you can take the opportunity to dump him in person.
Don't let a couple good days on vacation make you think this is OK. You deserve more out of a relationship, and if this is the one for you, the two of you will figure something out.
2007-01-02 03:39:09 · answer #1 · answered by David G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how strong the relationship is. In a way, I can understand you being upset but at the same time, Long distance relationships usually don't work out. I don't want to upset you but sometimes a person gets tired of having to go through all the necessary planning to see their partner. Most people just want to be able to call them up for them to come over and see them.
2007-01-02 11:42:58 · answer #2 · answered by Brownie_baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP THE JERK!
My bf lives in england and I havent seen him since aug 8th...and I will see him jan 8th..but during all the time we were apart, he worked him *** off to earn the money to come see me here in America. He even gave up drinking to save money...all that to just see me. Not only that, when i was sick one day he stayed online and talked to me all night instead of going out with his friends.
You need a guy who will treat you like a princess. Im sorry to say your guy is just not worth it.
good luck!
2007-01-02 11:41:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry this is an outlook express relationship no future no nothing it is clear as the sky dear and you are still asking, if he wanted to be with you he would pay the money for hotels dinners and everything....................
when in doubt knock three time maybe you should see reality
2007-01-02 11:40:54 · answer #4 · answered by kotik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he does not have time for you do not make time for him. I could understand if he did not have any money but he use the money to go out with his friends.
2007-01-02 11:40:41 · answer #5 · answered by Disha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's too tiring to keep up with this long distance relationship.
2007-01-02 11:55:14 · answer #6 · answered by Jancy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He isn't that interested in you. Let him go with his mates and you find someone that wants to be with you!!!
2007-01-02 11:40:04 · answer #7 · answered by dynamicDee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems to me he has all to time in the world to have his fun , so if it's now interfering on ur time i say get rid of him odds are he is cheating .
2007-01-02 11:40:18 · answer #8 · answered by naughty eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him he isn't putting forth any effort to be with you.
2007-01-02 11:38:52 · answer #9 · answered by gentlgodis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions speak louder than words, don't you think?
2007-01-02 11:40:31 · answer #10 · answered by DORY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋