ok, just started dating again after a long time being single. met this guy and slept with him within 3months of dating. to be honest i didnt know alot about him, apart from he seemed like a decent guy.
spent new years with him, back at his house. turns out hes completely different.... to what i expected.
Im not a snob, but i like men to have some manners while in the bedroom... he farted on my leg twice.... he decided to tell me he had a 6month child.
he then had a strop cause i wouldnt give me a bj, but i thought the more you demand the more i wont give it to you. he ordered me a taxi and i thought screw him, i went home, and then he called questioning where i had gone, saying he was sorry etc!?! so like a dik i went back down there..... .but didnt give him a bj.
he has bad manners, he deals mild drugs and he's into weight training.. but hes such a nice person at times, hes funny, sexy body....
do i risk it ? or knock it on the head while my feelings arnt to strong?
2007-01-02 03:33:30 · 28 answers · asked by geminially 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thank you all for your help.
Youve helped alot xx
2007-01-02 04:03:13 · update #1
grr no girl really likes it when a guy throws a tantrum over a bj..
i suppose it depends on what you want..
if your questioning him already then perhaps its time to move on.. i mean if his actions make you un happy tell him.. so that way he can try and stop his behavior if it doesn't improve maybe you should move on
life is to short to be in a unhappy relationship
2007-01-02 03:41:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normally I would tell you to talk it out and see if something good can come out of it but I'm not going to say that here and now. There are too many bad signs here, at least by what you're saying. He has too many secrets and doing something you don't want to be involved in. Leave while you're feelings are little before its too late and he hurts you in a way with no return! There's nothing wrong with wanting a guy to respect you, that's how you should live your life. Otherwise people will run all over you, relationships are all about respecting eachother along with caring, understanding and trust. He hasn't done very much of these things for you except being a jerk. You don't need to go through that, don't let his looks and few good moments blind you from the real truth! I'm sorry to be so negative and I hate being that way, but you still have a chance! take it, please!
2007-01-02 12:11:15 · answer #2 · answered by Steve S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all if he 's like that about the bj's if you dont like doing it get out while you can. Men that want that all the time wanna be with a female that just does it without asking. I dont there is anything wrong with him. I have dated plenty of guys like this and now i am with my bf for 4 years. And no..... theres nothing wrong with having sex with a guy after 3 months. Maybe YOU just need to start demanding something lol. Just tell him what you want and see how he responds. good luck!
2007-01-02 11:39:06 · answer #3 · answered by PrinCipeSSa ItaLiAnA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You paying to much attention to the what ifs and not the what is. He is nothing you want and you are still considering him. If you went to a car lot...not to say men are cars but if you did would you get a car with a lot of problems or would you try to get something at least a bit close to what you want. The most positive thing you had to say about this sad excuse for a man was that he was nice sometimes. Lawd, are you that in need of companionship.
Jump off his ship like it's the Titanic and find a new ship to sail on.
2007-01-02 11:43:34 · answer #4 · answered by Wordsmith 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Babe, you sound like a clever girl, come on, what would you advise to another girl going out with a guy as the one you've just discribed?
Yeah. Dump him right now.
He's bad news, and this is only the tip of the iceberg in my opinion.
You can do MUCH MUCH better.
Leave him without a backward glance and no guilt. Trust me.xx
2007-01-02 11:43:44 · answer #5 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be funny , sexy and nice some of the time but if you have any doubts at all, get rid of him. What little manners he has now at the beginning of the relationship will disappear completely before too long!
2007-01-02 11:37:36 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get out of it! The guy clearly sees you as an object he can send away and call back at will, and have his way with when he wants. Maybe stay friends, but you'll end up a depressed lady if you stay with him, I think. as for Farting on your leg... did he laugh/appologise/ignore it happened? Good luck finding a new one, and hope you're more successful! x
2007-01-02 11:37:46 · answer #7 · answered by PhoenixRights 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds a little like hes on steriods which could explain the seemingly unprovoked anger and annoyance...but it depends, are the good times worth the bad?? if they arent, then try to kill it now, If they are, fight for it, tell him what he does that bothers you and maybe he'll get better
2007-01-02 11:37:34 · answer #8 · answered by Adam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are absolutely mad ...... Think about what you have just written .... And I try not to be a snob when I tell you ..... He is scum...he deals drugs....he has baggage..... he has no manners....he orders you to do things you dont want to do.....
You are stupid if you dont walk away from him..... There are so many Chav's and Pikies out there let him go out with one of them....Save your self while you still can....
2007-01-02 11:41:23 · answer #9 · answered by Fox Hunter 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Run as fast as you can. It's not a bad thing to be alone right now or shall I say by your self . get into the word and eventually he will see fit for you to have some one worthy to have just be patient.
2007-01-02 11:38:51 · answer #10 · answered by miss out spoken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋