By that I mean a dude that has a backbone and will challange my authority and will be strong enough to handle my challenges. All the men that approach me, want me to be a dominatrix or something. They want ME to be the man! I've had guys dance with me at clubs, and ask me to take the lead and be the man...WTF? I'm eatern european so I guess I have that automatic dominatrix face, BUT I want a challenge not a wimp? What can I do to attract stronger men, not little boys that want me to touch their butts!
2007-01-02 03:31:16 · 20 answers · asked by MindyCindyLindy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I suspect this question alone should get you at least a few takers. I have all the long-distance issues I can stand right now (one) so I'm going to take a pass...but, good luck in the search.
2007-01-02 03:34:06 · answer #1 · answered by David G 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A dominant personality comes from self confidence and trust in oneself. There might be guys that are willing to play the dominant role in a relationship because they usually are reacting to their inner-most inferiority fears. You don't want that.
Look for men that have a strong personality and can carry themselves with a positive attitude, a sense of confidence about themselves, and who even may have an opinion or two about things.
I feel secure, confident, and positive about myself. I don't need to be an explicitly dominant personality to be a dominant figure in a relationship. It comes naturally because I believe in myself. And I'll be the one to touch your butt ;-) and lead you in a dance :-)
2007-01-02 11:38:02 · answer #2 · answered by houstonian352000 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Um...keep trying, I dont know to many guys that way so it sounds like you are just having bad luck, keep it up, and things will turn out fine in the end. If you want tips on how to bring them in try acting a little shy, maybe you're right and you do give off a dominating presence...if you dont give off that presence maybe idk..ive never tried picking up a guy, but when a girls a little shy it makes it more fun I know that
2007-01-02 11:34:35 · answer #3 · answered by Adam 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Go to a place to meet men where other Eastern Europeans will be. They will share the same culture and values that you grew up with.
2007-01-02 11:37:13 · answer #4 · answered by dpon62 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me they are out there. Maybe you aren't going to the right places. Try an attorney or a doctor. Many of them think they are God's gift to the earth. You may decided you want a nicer guy after you hook up with them!!!
2007-01-02 11:36:31 · answer #5 · answered by dynamicDee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you need to look at the older men available. Of course many of them are spineless wimps as well.
I'm not push over for sure, I don't allow anyone to have authority over me. I take the lead the lady follow's or i'll leave her in my tracks. Simple as that.
2007-01-02 11:35:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Haha, i kinda like you! I hope ALL guys read this question and learn from it, and stop giving the rest of us a bad name!
How can a woman feel secure and protected by a submissive BOY who gives her his balls in a clear plastic bag for all to see, and can't handle the odd test, tantrum or whine?
Didn't answer your question as such, or did i? ;-)
2007-01-02 11:48:00 · answer #7 · answered by SiriuS 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tough one in the USA where most guys act and talk like wimps. But there are some of us around. ;-) Just ask the guys you meet, if he has balls, he'll let you know. I would! (I have!) ;-)
Good luck!
I am originally from Eastern Europe as well.....
2007-01-02 11:35:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are so many guys out there who loves to be the dominating one.You must be looking for guys in the gay club,more than 50 percent of the straight men out here like to be in charge.To me,that the man's role.And like the guy said black guys are the best.
2007-01-02 11:33:47 · answer #9 · answered by DiamondXxx 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Date men! Not "little boys".
2007-01-02 11:35:36 · answer #10 · answered by DORY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋