Let them go. You will spend all your time trying to convince them to like you and changing to be what you think they like. You will loose yourself in the process and end up thinking you are not good enough based on the fact that they don't like you. Just be yourself and find someone who loves you for who you are.
2007-01-02 03:28:32
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answered by Anonymous
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Miki is right, if you maintain this whole thing you can end up hatting him; it happened to me I like this guy so much , and I though he liked me also , but at the end his actitudes and all that he was showed up and I realized I was having a relationship just on my head , it was sort of hurtfull at the beginning cause for some reason I imagined I could have any guy that I wanted to (do I sound humble? :) , but it wasn't real, and all this love I had for him turn into hate ...and end up hurting me even more (those hate feelings end up for hurting you more than to the other person, you know?). But I decided to let it go , and now it's like I don't care anymore, I just ignore everything he does or is ..it's more liberating.
Well, the truth is that you cannot made anyone love you, that is something that just happens , and for that you also need ¨two¨ persons, so when you are the only one who is loving someone that just means that it is not love and you shouldn't been forcing it ; at the end the effort is not worth it. Good Luck with everything, probably this is your year :)
2007-01-02 12:23:21
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answered by jueves 4
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How do you know he doesn't like you, did you ask him?
1) To love him or not, if a guy doesn't love you and, especially, doesn't like you, then my strongest suggestion would be to dump him and move on.
2) What is the nature of your self esteem that you would want to contiunue in a one way relationship where this person doesn't seem to want to have anything to do with you?
**I think the ball is in your court. You need to figure out whether you deserve this type of treatment or whether you deserve better. Either way, I know you will make the best possible decision for yourself.
Good luck and peace...
2007-01-02 11:32:53
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answered by Anonymous
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If it only goes one way then its not real. You cannot make someone feel something that they don't feel. You will regret or worse hate the person in the end. So enjoy the sweet feelings when you find yourself being near him or her. But look for someone who wishes you would show those feelings on them. A little jealousy never hurt anyone. lol..
2007-01-02 11:30:15
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answered by Miki M 3
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Say this, out loud, to yourself right now: I CAN'T MAKE ANYONE LOVE ME. Repeat.
Give up, or else you're doomed to a life of trying to make someone love you. If you really love them, set them free.
2007-01-02 11:28:46
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answered by none 2
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Well, which is it? Do you love him, or her, more than anything else in the world?
2007-01-02 11:25:46
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answered by blueyedimpledguy 3
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Move on of course. You are only going to get hurt and maybe used if you stick around. How can you be with someone that doesn't like you?....
2007-01-02 11:29:19
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answered by Anonymous
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Suppose you should pack your bags and move on to find someone who will treat you with respect and return these feeling to you.
2007-01-02 11:27:42
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answered by crazylegs 7
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Are yall together?? because you are making it sound like yall are... If yall are obviously he likes you some... If he doesn't, you can either keep tryin or move on.. I would suggest you move on though..
2007-01-02 11:28:45
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answered by kmichelle89 2
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you should just like someone that does like you and you like him or her you know it can be a girl. learn to like them
2007-01-02 12:13:16
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answered by superman 1
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