I currently live with my partner and a lot of the tiime things are great sometimes we fight but thats life. Recently i have started getting this strange feeling in my gut that seems to be telling me he's not the one. Other than that we are really good together. i just want an outsider's opinion on weather its worth letting the relationship run its natural course .
i recently returned to college and am hoping to apply to universtiy next year. i don't know wheather i should look at that as the time to consider ending the relationship.
2007-01-02 03:19:53 · 15 answers · asked by jess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Cut your partner loose now! He or she deserves honesty.
2007-01-02 03:22:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds more like jitters in big changes in life. Sometimes we want to overhaul our whole life then, but doesnt mean we ditch what works, esp as you are starting this new stage, it would be good to have a built in support system. Too many changes can be overwhelming.
I think most serious relationships- of all kinds- come to a point where it seems like we should move on, but it is just reaching a new level. If things are good, ride it out. If the feeing persists longer than you think it should, start listening...
2007-01-02 03:28:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on how much you fight. No matter what ppl say... fighting is not natural. That's all I did in my long relationship and it ruined everything after a while you just get tired of it. Take some time apart to see if this is what you want. If you still like him after time apart then tell him that.
2007-01-02 03:22:36 · answer #3 · answered by Confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a natural feeling in maturing relationships.
The question is. Do you see yourself still with this person in 5 years?
2007-01-02 03:28:05 · answer #4 · answered by tenbadthings 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello There...
Sometimes in relationships,people can feel bored,and that kind of feeling can be for short or even long period,it's all depends on how you handle it....
What you feel right now reallny natural,I even experienced it once....
Now just give yourself sometime to think and miss him...Maybe one of the factor of why you feel that way is becoz you meet him too often and it's too early to live with your partner....
GudLuck....x)
2007-01-02 03:29:45 · answer #5 · answered by sweetyuth_xp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it really that he is not the one, or is it that things are changing for you? Your life is changing with college and university and it takes time for thingsto settle down again. Maybe it'll be best to talk to your partner first.
2007-01-02 03:24:42 · answer #6 · answered by Emma W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your gut...and spare the both of you some heartache. It seems you are just prolonging something you know is not right for you.
2007-01-02 03:22:26 · answer #7 · answered by stacey h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U HAVE 2 FOLLOW UR HEART AND DO WHAT IT TELLS U. U DO NOT WANT 2 LIVE IN A RELATIONSHIP THAT MAY TURN INTO A REAL MESS. NEVER IGNORE UR FEELINGS THEY NEVER LIE. GOOD LUCK
2007-01-02 03:25:37 · answer #8 · answered by Baby Gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not try staying friends if things are not working out as a couple--its a shame to lose the whole relationship--butterfly
2007-01-02 03:31:17 · answer #9 · answered by butterfly22091 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the gut. You know if it's over or not.
2007-01-02 03:23:58 · answer #10 · answered by Wild Bill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋