Nikhil I know exactly what you are asking. I was so sad all the time that I drank in order to hide my unhappiness. However it didnt work. I am sober now and have been for 90 days. Everything is the same and there are still things that make me sad. Depending upon what those things are, I say the serenity prayer. God grant me the courage to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference. It clears things up for me so that I can help change things in order to make them better, maybe not perfect but better for me and everyone else involved. If I can not change it I learn to cope or deal with it the way it is. The wisdom helps me enjoy the things that have changed and accept those things that I could not. It is easy to be negative it takes work to be positive. I know it is not easy so I wish you the absolute best. And remember life is not counted by the breaths that we take it is counted by the moments that take our breath away. God speed.
2007-01-02 03:29:53
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answered by tryntomakitrite 1
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its all in your mind bro.
everyone has problems.
you cannot stay happy all the time.
sometimes you need to be angry, sad, or frustrated with the things around you. but that is life.
you can never tell. you may be happy but in the inside youre not.
just do the things that makes you happy and always smile. that also helps.
if ever situations come that makes you sad. smile. think of it as a opportunity to show what you are made of. if it fails, think of it as a remembrance that not everyone is perfect.
try to stand up again if you fall.
never think you will lose. think you will win. even if the odds are against you,
2007-01-02 03:25:22
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answered by Karl G. 3
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your life is all in what you make it my friend, don't be so hard on yourself, go out and meet new friends do different things,do something nice for someone, you have to build happiness
2007-01-02 03:24:25
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answered by sissy 3
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if you really want to be happy, you'd do things that'll make you happy and make yourself feel good even amidst all those sad things that surround you...
2007-01-02 03:21:38
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answered by emma 6
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..it is only as hard as you make it...surround yourself with positive things....
2007-01-02 03:18:00
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answered by chillie 6
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