I have recently been thinking about contacting my biological father, he left before i was born, i just have so many questions but he has a family now and i dont want 2 destroy that should i contact him or just try to forget the idea?
2007-01-02 03:14:10 · 5 answers · asked by cme 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
do what is in your best intrest
2007-01-02 03:16:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in a similar situation, but he didn't leave, my mom left. I've wanted to contact him but at the same time, he isn't my dad. My dad would probably be offended first of all, and second of all, what good could come of it. Would you want a relationship with him? Is it to just confront him? I found out he has a lot of money, but I decided not to, and that is a personal choice, nobody on here should influence your decision, because this is YOUR decision. Good luck either way.
2007-01-02 03:22:53 · answer #2 · answered by maas25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should contact him cause you are part of his family too so that want destroy his other family every girl need a chance to meet their father and spend time with him heres the time for you
2007-01-02 03:19:45 · answer #3 · answered by action tells it all 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what is in your heart. clearly you are longing for affection/ a relationship with him. your contacting him may not destroy his family, they may all embrace you. if you do not contact him, you will spend the rest of your life wondering what if......
2007-01-02 04:03:10 · answer #4 · answered by Lin B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what you feel would be best for you.
2007-01-02 03:31:42 · answer #5 · answered by HoneyZ2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋