I've been dating this guy for about two weeks now. I am 26 and he is 12 years older than me. Physically we are very attracted to each other and we usually have sex 5 or 6 times a day. I am looking for a long term relationship, but I am not sure if that's what he wants or not. This is my first sexual relationship and I really don't know the difference between f**ing and makin love. How do you know if your partner really wants you for yourself or for just sex?
2007-01-02 03:07:09 · 11 answers · asked by bitter s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
..apparently, you have no time to do anything together but have sex....so.....that is your answer.....
2007-01-02 03:08:54 · answer #1 · answered by chillie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you guys ever go anywhere or do you just stay in? If you stay in then its just sex. Makin love is slow and sensual and looking into each others eyes and finding each others spots. It may just be that the relationship is so new too that you two are just having sex alot. Good luck
2007-01-02 11:14:07 · answer #2 · answered by llexiann30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first off you need to take stock in monostat. If you're going at it 5 or 6 times a day, you have to be getting yeast infections out the yazoo... How do you find out if he wants a relationship? Easy, stop with the sex for a while. If he still wants to be around you, then you have something going.
2007-01-02 11:13:42 · answer #3 · answered by Josh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should see if the guy wants a long term relationship before you have sex with him....
Guys who try to sleep with you right away does not necesarily mean that he wants a realtionship... he just wants to have sex
as long as you are giving it to him he will take it
ever here the saying "why buy the cow if the milk is for free?"
You need to find a guy that is willing to wait for sex because he wants to be with you not just sleep with you.
2007-01-02 11:12:09 · answer #4 · answered by Meliskell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way to find out is say no -- if he is still there then he wants more than sex
the difference is that making love has feelings of caring and respect and affection and a lot more
2007-01-02 11:16:45 · answer #5 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both work, how are ya'll finding time to do that WILD THING 5 to 6 times a day? If its only been several weeks your probably just doing it if you know what I mean. Hey does he please you or does he have his needs filled and what about foreplay? Thats important to me. If he looks in your eyes while "making love " then thats different also. Hey, just take it one day at a time, eveneually ya'll will slow down and Love will reveal itself OR Lust will. . .Be patient. . .
2007-01-02 11:16:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, if you're having sex this much after knowing a man for two weeks, you're f**king......Long term relationship possibly, but not likely.......
2007-01-02 11:09:38 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you have a horrible contageous lifethreating vaginal desease and that you cant have sex with you anymore. If he is still holding you by tomorro then it was ment to be! Make sure you tell him you were playing.
Ps Second though... Tell him your pregnant and see if he pushes you away or if he hold you tighter. And then tell him it was a false alarm. !!
2007-01-02 11:11:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your partner is more concerened on you for every thing, except sex, he is in real love else its only biological satisfaction
2007-01-02 11:10:12 · answer #9 · answered by senhyd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way you will know is if you ask him.
2007-01-02 11:09:36 · answer #10 · answered by wHaT eVeR 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋