I started dating my bf in August. He broke up with me in November to date someone else. In the middle of December, he called me and said that I was all he could think about about and that he would never forgive himself if he let me walk away. He told me he loved me and wanted to be with me and that he had no doubts and that I was in his heart. I was hesitant to reconcile and told him he would really have to "walk the walk," and he agreed. So, we reconciled. We spent several days together over the course of the week and he even introuduced me to his Mother. During this time, his old gf was still contacting him and going to his house wouldn' leave him alone because she wants him back. My bf ended up breaking up with me again the day before New Years, but we reconciled again and spent New Years together. Now he tells me he is in love with us both and his heart is confused. He says he can't choose. Is there anything I can do to tip the odds to my favor? I really love him.
2007-01-02 02:58:48 · 10 answers · asked by GadgetGrl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he's that confused it means in his eyes you're both the same person just with different faces, my advice is leave him. somewhere out there is a man who'll make you feel like you're the only woman in the world because truly to him you are.
2007-01-02 03:12:32 · answer #1 · answered by black-gold-honey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but I don't think your efforts should go toward 'tipping the odds in your favor'. This guy's ex-girlfriend is still on the hunt b/c of the mixed messages she's been getting from your boyfriend. He probably enjoys the attention of two women, and wants to keep you both 'waiting in the wings' in case one of the two relationships don't work out. You deserve a guy that's crazy about you and knows what he wants. Walk away fast and don't look back. Thereafter, focus on your own needs and what will help you move on. Don't worry about the hurt you'll cause the 'boyfriend' b/c he already has someone else in place to comfort him. He can't be loyal to either of you. Good Luck
2007-01-02 03:06:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, dont walk away...RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN away. Do you really need this kind of BS? "Fight for your man"???? Are you kidding? Hold your head up high,let him know that you are too good for games, and that if he were "in love with you", he wouldnt F**K with you like this. Let him know what you stand for AND what you wont stand for. Let her have him....they're "ex's" for a reason...they'll be EX's AGAIN, and when that happens, and he comes running to you, you'll be long gone and happy with someone else...just watch!
2007-01-02 03:05:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk away. Find someone who wants to be with YOU. He isn't "walking the walk". He keeps SAYING he loves you and wants you, but then keeps leaving you for another girl. There's better choices out there than someone who claims to be "confused". Just tell him you're making the decision for him, and cut him loose.
2007-01-02 03:04:20 · answer #4 · answered by Jess H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk away belive me i was in the same situation early this year i was with some1 for 5 years dumoped hima nd three years later asked him back he dumped a girl he had been with for 2 years but he cudnt give her up either i dumped him and he ended up proposing to me a week after being engaged he slept with her dotn mess when there is three in a relationship ul get hurt, if he wanst you hel understand and get rid iof her but let him orve that
2007-01-02 03:03:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT A JERK! Noone can love two people at the same time. hun, he's not worth it at all! You need a guy who will treat you like a princess with ONLY you in mind. DUMP THIS JERK.
you need someone better.
2007-01-02 03:04:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk away....if he really wants you he wouldn't have to think about it
2007-01-02 03:04:01 · answer #7 · answered by Jen_n_TX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u think he is worth fighting for than...heck yes u need to fight for him...but he needs to choose and not pull both of u around....he needs to be w/one of u or none of u....he needs to be w/niether of u while he decides!!
2007-01-02 03:56:05 · answer #8 · answered by Rachel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hye my name is ekta i think you must leave him because if he is not sincere with his first girlfriend how he can sincere with you because of you he leave his first girlfriend he can also leave you for another girl
2007-01-02 03:07:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP HIM.
2007-01-02 03:02:48 · answer #10 · answered by steelypen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋