His family doesnt like me due to our rocky past, however we love each other very much and are considering marriage. However, I can't take there opinions, comments and actions much more. I want to do something about all of this. He shouldn't have to go without having them in his life but they are horrible to me when I go around so now he either doesnt go around them or I just stay home. Either way I just dont know what this is suppose to prove them holding a grudge but it isn't helping us out at all. We are both in AA and trying desperately to make all our wrongs as right as possible but they are just not understanding. The ones who say they dont mind me coming around are still rude to me when I am. It is just not worth the headache so I stay home. What could we do to make this better. No one wants to marry into a family that doesnt like them. But how could they when they dont even know me?
2007-01-02 02:58:10 · 2 answers · asked by tryntomakitrite 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Behavioral patterns are just as addictive as alcohol. Getting the kick out of rejection can be very powerful. If you want to continue the old patterns, that's up to you. If you want a better life, find someone who shares the same values. No one who loves you would allow their parents to treat you badly.
2007-01-02 03:09:56 · answer #1 · answered by Martell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your bf has to really talk to his family and tell them that he really likes you and that he wants to be with you. When he does, two things might happen, either they will slowly accept you to the family or will discommunicate themselves to your bf.
2007-01-02 11:11:57 · answer #2 · answered by Jon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋