Hi.I've just immersed myself into a relationship.I wish to know if it is necessary thing for a couple to contact each other everyday(on phone) to chat?If he doesnt call,does it means he couldn't be bothered n not conerned anymore?
2007-01-02 02:55:58 · 11 answers · asked by lemondevil88 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i guess both parties promised to make the effort to meet up at least once a week no matter how busy we r.Maybe im too sensitive or insecure.Its a 1st time n im nt sure wad shld i or we do to let the relationship progess?
2007-01-02 04:37:24 · update #1
It's not absolutely necessary, no. It really depends on what both of you are comfortable with. One couple might not be able to stand not being in contact, and another couple might find daily chatting to be a bit stifling. It really all depends on the people involved and how comfortable they are with it.
2007-01-02 02:59:03 · answer #1 · answered by Egghead 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no in facted its not necessary to talk each day
thank god hes not the smoothing kind he may trust your being faithful and dont need to check up on you so much.
make sure you talk every couple of days even if you must make the first step a new relatioship needs to make a close bond its ok if you want to call him and see how his day was .tell him he was on your mind all day and you couldnt stop thinking about him that will stroke his ego and he will eat that up keep it short tho...
also talk with him maybe some one told him to keep it loose and hes just doing what he thinks you want space to breath.if thing dont pick up soon or he seems less interested ask him if thing are ok with the two of you that you feel a little lack of intrest from him
do what you feel is right a new relationship should be a need to get to know each other in the being it a need to be together all the time everything is new and exciting and alittle less later on .only you and your partner know your true relationship and what it is so you must trust your heart and listen to your self.
everything is probley all good.....
2007-01-02 11:15:15 · answer #2 · answered by michelle e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woman like to talk. Men don't. Most woman have saved up their allotment of words to share with their companion's sharing their days and thoughts and trying to show their interest in the lives of their loved ones. Men on the other hand say what they say to whom they need to and by the end of their day, they are finished. Nothing else needs to be said. lol His lack of effort could be taken many ways, or he has just had a bad couple of days. Be available but not a bother. Good luck.
2007-01-02 11:01:52 · answer #3 · answered by Miki M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it depends on long of a wait u have between the calls, if it's a few days i would call him and see how he's acting, and if i had to wait days before another call, well then i don't think he's that interested , if men are into u they always find time to have even a good night call, but nothing stops u from calling too i mean maybe he thinks the same thing ?
2007-01-02 11:01:36 · answer #4 · answered by naughty eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my god. Is that what being in a relationship is suppose to be like....constant communication and him letting you know his every thought and feeling?
I thought it meant having a really close friend (usually of the opposite sex) that you like to hang out with and do fun things (especially sex) with. I don't think you have to turn over the keys to your life to that person. Or am I missing something?
2007-01-02 10:59:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really. Remember that even though we've evolved a great deal, guys are still hunters at heart. They get obessed with getting what they want (ie you), but after they've gotten it, they slack off. If doesn't mean we don't love you, but we've changed our drive and are focusing on more than one thing again.
2007-01-02 11:02:44 · answer #6 · answered by Josh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not necessary to have a day to day conversation jsut because you are in a relationship. It may just mean that he is extremely busy and does not want to just talk to you for a quick chat....when he talks to you he wants it to be a quality conversation.
2007-01-02 10:58:29 · answer #7 · answered by trivia buff 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the begining just go with the flow remember he is trying to get to kno so dont you too, so dont get crazy if he doesn't call right away if a guy likes you, you will know.
2007-01-02 10:58:34 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, hun, by experience I think most men are like that.... Not that it makes it ok, you know what I mean? But, you could talk to him and tell him everything that is worrying you... I know everyone says it... But communication will never be overrated :-)
Good luck! ;-)
2007-01-02 11:01:41 · answer #9 · answered by Lizzie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, depends on the guy maybe?
I'd be turned off if a guy didn't want to talk to me every day...
2007-01-02 10:59:12 · answer #10 · answered by steelypen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋