okay.. I asked this boy out.. and I've gone out with him before. but he said no.. becuase he didnt know me that well.. but he went out with me 2 years ago.. and we met at the beginning of the school year.. and went out in the second semester.. what i dont get is why he went out with me then.. and wont now.. and this is the boy I danced with and stuff at our dances.
2007-01-02 02:40:49 · 10 answers · asked by sarah♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh, and I talk to him a lot at school.
2007-01-02 02:43:51 · update #1
Sometimes we don't know whether a person is 'right' for us until we get to know them better. When he went out with you a couple of years ago, he probably saw potential for a relationship but subsequently didn't quite find what he needed. It's not that you are lacking anything at all. You're just not 'right' for this person and while you had fun with him in the past, he has moved on to seek someone who is more his ideal. Again, this is nothing against your character and shouldn't be perceived as such. In fact, maybe he felt he couldn't 'measure up' to you. Regardless, he is letting you know he's no longer interested in anything beyond friendship; nor interested in getting to know you better. Although you most likely feel rejected, don't. Keep asking until someone says 'yes'!
2007-01-02 02:52:33 · answer #1 · answered by bfwh218 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he had plans? Or maybe he allready has a girlfriend and didn't want to hurt your feelings by telling you that. Guys are weird like that sometimes. I don't think they get it. Try again maybe next semester and ask him to tell you the truth. If he was telling you the truth try asking another guy out. If a guy asks you out and you are still trying to ask this one guy out GO FOR IT!
2007-01-02 10:50:29 · answer #2 · answered by becca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe have you thought that he might not be interested in you but someone else. He acts like he just wants to be friends with you now. Hey go with the flow maybe it might change later never know.
2007-01-02 10:46:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to tell you the truth he probably just dint like you but at the same time don't want to hurt your feelings. You need to move on the bigger and better girl!!!
2007-01-02 10:45:28 · answer #4 · answered by lady bug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wel dont ask him again,
infact dint talk to him again, he doesnt deserve your company. if you talk to him at school then he should know you enough to want to get to know you more.
sorry to say sweetie, he sounds like a loser. just play a little hard to get... trust me, it works wonders. the female of the species is far greater than the male!!!
2007-01-02 10:46:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he sees that there was no chemistry between the 2 of you.
2007-01-02 10:46:30 · answer #6 · answered by Brat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might think that you and him hav lost touch or he is just making excuses....just cuz he went out w/u once doesnt mean he will again....people change!
2007-01-02 11:01:11 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him and find someone better that will want to go out with you.
2007-01-02 10:48:36 · answer #8 · answered by tweety_baby258 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
short answer. He doesn't like you in any romantic/socially intimate way.
2007-01-02 10:45:09 · answer #9 · answered by Josh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boys are trouble... wait til you grow up... find a man
2007-01-02 10:42:49 · answer #10 · answered by ﺸÐïåMóñdÐôññåﺸ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋