Me and the ex g/f split, way back in august... 4 year relationship... she dumped me, i told her to leave ME alone, no texts, phone calls, anything, this was about 3 months ago... Neway she sends me a crimbo card.. and she sent me a new years txt, 'Hey #### hope u you have a gr8 2007, happy new year, luv #'.
I know its a nice gesture but i dont want to hear from her, she messed me up properly.
We are both naw with different people, yet it feels to me goin over old news, over and over...!
why is she contacting me still...?
2007-01-02 02:27:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she is still in love with you
2007-01-02 02:30:32 · answer #1 · answered by that guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were a big part of her life, she doesn't want it to just disapear. Don't assume she wants to get back with you or anything - she probably just assumed that 3 months was long enough to get over her - and she probably misses the friendship that you once had. I don't know what reasons she had for ending the relationship but in all probability after 4 years she didn't just want to cut you out of her life completely.
I doubt shes trying to play games, if you don't want her to contact you again, either ignore it or tell her so. Just don't be mean eh? And see what happens,
maybe you could become friends? Like you say - you both have new partners, you've both moved on.
good luck hun,
tasha x
2007-01-02 10:41:40 · answer #2 · answered by tasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a four yr relationship is difficult to get out of because by then you two would have know all about your self and how to amend. welll to answer your question you might have been her real love even though things didnt work out and she cant just leave you alone like that. you have move on but she might have not , common she's a woman and it's just difficult not to contact someone you might have loved before so just still be friends with her, im sure she's not contacting you to get back together, she might just want to say sorry for how she messed you up. well tlhat's just my opinion. talk to her to know the rest. just give her a chance.
2007-01-02 10:32:38 · answer #3 · answered by 9jagurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's feeling bad for what she did to you. And she's mad that you are happy with someone else. Basically she's jealous. It happened to me before. Whatever you do, don't hook back up with her. That just lets her know that it's okay to do it again, what ever she did. And she will do it again. Just call her up, or text her if you don't want to talk to her, and get mean and maybe throw in a cuss word or two, and let her know what the deal is and that you are serious about it.
2007-01-02 10:33:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe just to say hello and wish you a happy new year, sometimes people do that and it doesn't necessarily mean anything. She may just have been thinking fondly of you and wants you to be happy.
Or...She may also want to get back together.
If you really don't want any connection with her anymore, simply ignore any communication you receive from her and eventually she'll get the message.
2007-01-02 10:32:30 · answer #5 · answered by mom of 2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She still has strong feeling for you that she can't extinguish. She doesn't want to let go of you. The only thing you can do to completely extinguish this behavior is to completely IGNORE her every attempt at reaching out to you. Don't call her, text her, or even acknowledge cards she sends you. Ignore her and eventually, she will leave you alone.
2007-01-02 10:31:20 · answer #6 · answered by Teddy Bear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she just misses you....she has that 4 year history with you too.....I know nothing about the reasons for your breakup but maybe its something she thought she had to do....regardless it was maybe just a nice gesture...take it as that and move forward with your new people.....
2007-01-02 10:33:24 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love makes us do crazy things...
obviously their is still alot of feelings she may be having a hard time letting go like you have.. don't be hard on her... if you don't want to answer than don't but don't be mean... we all have our own ways of dealing with everything when a relationship is over.. for sometimes its harder than we ever could of imagined....
2007-01-02 11:42:21 · answer #8 · answered by ﺸÐïåMóñdÐôññåﺸ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably just being nice. If you really want her to stop doing these things just ignore it entirely.
2007-01-02 10:29:56 · answer #9 · answered by detfan12_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keeping you on the hook in case she needs to come back for something.
2007-01-02 10:33:08 · answer #10 · answered by Yuckmouth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋