gal is interested in another guy after being with me for 1.5 months because this was a guy she couldn't get before (he's a player which had a few diff gals before) and he suddenly told her he has interest. She said the thing which made her try to work things out with me was because I was the nicest bf to her and I treated her right. But I think she broke up with me cause she's intrigued with being with him. We had huge arguments for a whole week on a recent overseas trip together. She tried to blame me for being suspicious and controlling her...when in fact I was suspicious for the right reasons. we had a falling out after our return but then talked it out after a few days to be friends. Yet when I asked her if there's a chance she said not now and don't keep my hopes up for the future. I know it can be a spur of the moment thing when she said it and also because she has that guy on the sidelines now. But do yall think I can win her back and how?
2007-01-02 02:18:37 · 4 answers · asked by Lost 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes you will win her back.Whatever happened was during the fight.Be nice to her, and give her some space.I f she has to make some decisions it will surely be on your side. Only give her some time.
2007-01-02 02:24:38 · answer #1 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I am in the same situation .....But, what I am wondering is why does she reply to your reply about having a second chance , "not now ..and don't keep hope for the future .." ..I know you might like her , but, is this the gf that you want really ? a girl who wants to try another guy out to see if whether or not , she will come back to you ..? she is showing instability ...you'd better dump her for good ..! that girl is not worthy of your love, man,..sorry ..She 's playing with you ...
if it was you that she loved, she wouldn't leave you for this other guy who you is a player after all ...and even if she comed back after trying out this guy, but the meal has already been spoiled..you were with someone , and that person leaves you and get ******, and give head to someone else, and then come back to you , for reconciliation ..geez, that's crazy ..!
No matter, how strong that you love her, make an effort to let her go, just distance yourself, and don't talk to her gradually , don't leave any reminder of her, in front of your eyes and you'll see she will be gone in your mind (not forget) but, she will not be important to you anymore ...as she will also forget you on her side, with her other guy ...!! don't worry, you'll be ok !! accept the lost for good reason, maybe you'll find better ..!! Move on ..!!
Good Luck !!
2007-01-02 02:33:38 · answer #2 · answered by bobby s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what will happen is this guy will toy with her and get what he wants then dump her. Then she will try to start the relationship back with you. Honestly I would have a hard time trusting this girl again. Who is to say that she won't leave you again if you guys ever do get back together. I would end it entirely and not even talk to her. That in itself will make her angry. To answer your question is you can win her back but why? Go get a girl that will treat you the way you treat her.
2007-01-02 02:25:06 · answer #3 · answered by detfan12_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think somebody is obsessed.....
2007-01-02 02:22:14 · answer #4 · answered by ﺸÐïåMóñdÐôññåﺸ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋