I had a pretty decent & quiet New Year. I wasn't mad, I did something positive, I also prayed, I went to see a good movie later that day, I'm doing fine .... but I'm depressed. Could it be because I recently broke up with my boyfriend? Or could it be the thoughts I have of the things I've been thru that were painful & where I'm at with my life at this point (2007) & wish I was doing more things with myself? I'm making progress in my life but I do wish I was doing more things even though I'm working towards them. Is it normal to feel this way on New Year's or during the holidays in general?
2007-01-02 02:17:23 · 11 answers · asked by Lala 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, it's normal. Why do you feel that way? I think you've answered the question yourself ...
Good luck in the new year.
2007-01-03 11:08:40 · answer #1 · answered by Minmi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well a lot of people take this time of year to reflect on their lives and their goals. Most people say they will quit smoking or lose weight, but others decide on issues like getting a new job, leaving a no good man/woman, and looking deep within ourselves to improve our state of mind. It could self esteem issues or just getting the courage to make big changes that will affect our lives tremendously.
Feeling depressed about your situation only lets you know that you are not happy and that you must make a change to be happy. It may hurt for a while but it would better down the road. A window closed on your ex-bf so that a new door will open.
Good luck on the start of your new life and new year .
2007-01-02 10:26:55 · answer #2 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes when you reflect on the past year you may feel that you haven't done as much as you thought you would have by this point. Then you will feel down in the dumps because you feel you may not in the new year either. Keep your goals in front of you and not behind, look forward and by all means keep up the prayer. God is always there to help you out in the low valleys.
2007-01-02 10:27:08 · answer #3 · answered by Shannon B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe my life would have turned out better if my parents didnt move to a boring town and move me here and there, but life is about the future and what you can do with it in time to come. so think about what you can do instead of what you have done. although keep it as a learning experiance.
2007-01-02 10:21:55 · answer #4 · answered by luckydo6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try some auto suggestion, suggest your mind to obey your orders. Say repeatedly that you are happ then you will become happy. Try this out then every day will be a new day and every year will be a new year.
2007-01-02 10:20:54 · answer #5 · answered by VINOD KRISHNA ANANTHANARAYANAN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think it's normal. the holidays just magnify everything because on these days, you should be feeling ecstatic--as advertised. holidays are always associated with happiness but come to think of it, holidays are not exceptions to any kind of sadness.
2007-01-02 10:21:47 · answer #6 · answered by jedi_rei 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know all this happening with u because u are having a heartbreak. I am bearing this ache from past 2years.
Just leave it on time
i
2007-01-02 10:21:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe if it's the first new year without your boyfriend...surround yourself with freinds and have alot of things to do and you will hopefully be fine.
good luck :)
2007-01-02 10:32:43 · answer #8 · answered by Valencianista 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, pray about everything worry about nothing!
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a holy place...
2007-01-02 10:21:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry!! this year will be a better year for you.. i am single and here my email address if you want to get to know a great guy!! efrain78223@yahoo.com
2007-01-02 10:21:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋