I have a friend to whom I have grown close. We have been friends for years, but she started touching me a lot and talking to me all the time. I asked her if she liked me, and she said no. The problem was she continued to flirt heavier and heavier. I was unsure about our relationship, so I backed off a bit and gave her a little space. Now, she treats me great sometimes and ignores me or seems hurt at other times. Did she like me? Should I attempt to push the relationship forward or hold back and forget it?
2007-01-02 02:16:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
is she going through some personal issues like breaking up with her bf or something? since you have asked her and she said no, i think you cant pursue in that line. wait a while, do something else and let her tell you what she wants
2007-01-02 02:21:14 · answer #1 · answered by isabella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said that you asked her if she likes you or not and she said ‘no’. if she said no then why are you thinking of pushing your relationship forward. You said that you know each other since long and her behavior is changed now. She started flirting with you more often.. She is not behaving in the manner she used to. You have to take a step. Communication is the best key. Just be straightforward, talk to her. Ask her out what’s wrong with her. There can be a possibility that she said no because she was in confused state of mind. You can ask her one more time if she wanted to indulge in a relationship with you. Be more specific and clear while asking her. Again think are you interested in her?
If she says yes then good and well. But if she repeats the same answer i.e., if she says no then please tell her clearly what you feel about her behavior. That’s it. Do not be harsh or do not think of ending your friendship. Just try to sort out everything in good manner.
2007-01-02 10:29:41 · answer #2 · answered by magnet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that she may like you.
Depending on if you like her or not you should ask her if she likes you even though you have asked before. If she keeps saying no, ask one of her friends to give you the scoop. If she does in fact have feelings for you and you have them back, go out with her if you feel comfortable. Otherwise if you dont like her, tell her that you would like to stay single for a while, but that maybe you two could work something out in the future.
2007-01-02 10:22:51 · answer #3 · answered by AEhottiex3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've read ur other question yes she did like u but u blew it cus she wasn't sure if u did like her and u shouldn't had backed off thats why she changed
2007-01-02 16:27:35 · answer #4 · answered by ♥yessy♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes you, she just doesn't want to admit it!! Just go for it and put it all on the line!!! No guts no glory. Good luck
2007-01-02 10:21:54 · answer #5 · answered by Christina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes confused and prefers to play the field.
2007-01-02 10:26:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋