That my husband get a job that pays well before I quit my job, that I make a decent amount at, and LOVE... to move 5 hours away in which I will have no job, no friends, no money, and will have to drive back and forth to where I currently live in order for my son to see his father. If I did move we would have to move back in 8 months, where we both would have to start all over with nothing.
2007-01-02 02:02:38 · 6 answers · asked by TOO MUCH TO THINK ABOUT 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
SO why do you have to quit your job so you can go somewhere else and then come back 8months later and start from scratch again. WHy not let him go by hiomself and you stay with your job and then when he gets back you still have everything you started with. It doesn't soudn right to left everything to go away for 8 months then comes back to nothing. Hey he can go and work there and come visit in the weekends, anyway it's just for 8 months. Not unless he wants to control everything you do. and make sure you don't get ahead in life. SOrta like keep you down below him always. SO it's up to you and him but if it was me I would go by myself if it's just for 8 months then after come to all the things I had beofre. Might be a little hard on the marriage for a while but 8 months is not that long.
2007-01-02 02:36:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is moving so important if you are going to be back 8 mos from now? Do not give up your job!!! Your job is your main income. Also do not leave your support system. You never know what the future will hold. Always protect yourself and your son. Let your husband commute temporarily.
2007-01-02 10:30:43 · answer #2 · answered by w2kaad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah that is too much to think about. But I don't think you're being unreasonable to ask and expect it. Why would you have to move if he doesn't have a job. Let him move and be the one who has to adjust to the uncomfortable situation. Just because you're "the wife/woman" doesn't mean that you have to be the one who gets screwed in the deal, ya know? You have rights just like he does and if your idea is better than his, stand your ground.
2007-01-02 10:12:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's unreasonable for your husband to expect you to move and quit your job that you love, especially when he doesn't even have a job.
2007-01-02 10:11:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a marriage every question must be viewed through the prism of "us" no me. So in order to answer that question you have to ask yourself "how will my choice effect our marriage?"
2007-01-02 10:08:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you women say decent amount of money you mean for him to be rich
2007-01-02 12:50:20 · answer #6 · answered by NONAME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋