this guy asked me out several times but i've turned down his request because he used to be a hearthrob in high school and he's got dozens of girls surrounding him everytime..i don't know since when..we started chatting on messenger..he asked to call but i always gave excuses because i don't wanna get involved in anything with him..so recently..he just came back from india for a short holiday and he said he's got plenty of things to tell me..i asked why can't he tell me online..he said there's too much and just refused to tell me any of it..he said he'll only spill if i promise to go out with him or if i allow him to call..what is wrong with him? i keep rejecting him because i'm afraid i might fall for him..and it feels insecure being with guys like him with soo many female acquaintances..so i always try to push it away..but i just don't get why he keeps wanting to go out with me..
2007-01-02 01:17:52 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Arielle, you're obviously a challenge to him. Stay aloof!
2007-01-02 01:21:19 · answer #1 · answered by Agony Aunt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tricky situation. He may really be interested in you, or he could be pursuing you because you keep telling him no, and he's not used to being rejected. The only way for you to find out is to either give him a call and let him take you out. Nothing wrong with a free dinner...But don't do anything during or after the date that you might regret.
2007-01-02 09:21:46 · answer #2 · answered by missm43050 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A. hes a playa and wants to add another notch to his status like a jerk
B. he really likes u and wants to go out with u
C. there really is just too many think to tell u over the internet
just give him a friends number or something while ur friend is over when he calls u can talk to him and then after that ur friend can just ignore his calls, or call him with a private number
2007-01-02 09:23:36 · answer #3 · answered by HanginByAMoment 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a really persistent person, i understand what you are saying about all the girls being around him but he picked you that means he likes you, plus i bet you are a very special person and you have something that all those other girls don't have. plus give him a chance and try to have fun with him you sound like you like him so try looking on the bright side of things and not the down side.
good luck and god bless
2007-01-02 09:27:43 · answer #4 · answered by LYDZII3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a good thing you did and i feel you should keep doing it. Dont stop rejected becuz if you dont you might in up the hurt one. Anmd why does he do it he is a boy the all do it. Just to think he might be saying the samething to another girl
2007-01-02 09:24:01 · answer #5 · answered by Wifey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him call you. He seems to really like you, and there is probably a good reason for him to :) hahaha. Give him a chance. If with so many female friends surrounding him, and he still comes after you with such persistence, I'd say he really does like you.
2007-01-02 09:22:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is one of those guys who has never really had to put up with a girl telling him no. He is used to getting the girl that he wants, and now that one is pushing him off and telling him no, he wants it even more so that he can forfill his little ego! Guys who persist and persist are not really interested in making the girl happy, but more interested and making themselves happy!
2007-01-02 09:23:24 · answer #7 · answered by smitty4626 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you are right, he wants to do more than just talk to you. in order to win a woman over without any real effort we need to be able to look into her eyes. we claim that's so she can see that we are telling the truth, but it's really because the eyes can tell an even bigger lie than people believe they can. most men can make their eyes say whatever it takes to get a woman in bed. don't be his next victim, if he wants to really talk to you, make him do it from a distance, at least until you learn to control your feelings.
2007-01-02 09:29:42 · answer #8 · answered by bravo95165 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because he likes you maybe? go out with him once and see what his intentions are. if all hes trying to do is take you back to his place, then politely tell him youre not interested and ask him to leave you alone. just give him a chance.
2007-01-02 09:23:11 · answer #9 · answered by miss_renaenae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He really really really likes you! Guys aren't that persistent unless they're well into you! He might have loads of girls after him, but it's obvious he must like you better! You might as well give him a chance!
2007-01-02 09:22:06 · answer #10 · answered by homiepr8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it seems like he really likes you and wants to get you more. But if you are afraid of this kind of guy, then you should just tell him that there is no way you two will get together and to just leave you alone.
2007-01-02 09:25:10 · answer #11 · answered by Jon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋