I had been secretly attracted to a woman for over five years. I finally asked her out and she said yes. We go out for lunch and somehow from there end up at my apartment and have great sex. And then again in the morning before she leaves for work.
Keeping in mind that she did not know me and this is the first time we actually met. I had known her because some of my friends work at the same office with her. She is a very attractive woman and surprisingly, I know for a fact that she has not been out on a date for over five years.
This makes up for a difficult situation for her, as she was leaving in the morning, I could feel her anguish. I think she is worried about what I will think of her...perhaps as being easy and/or quick to jump in bed with me, self respect issues.
I want to write her an email to ease her mind and that what happened was just great.
What do I say? Please help me...you girls know what I am talking about, what do I say that she needs/wants to hear?
2007-01-02 00:19:18 · 12 answers · asked by curious 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How about asking her out on a date?
Let her know that you're interested in her for more than sex.
And please, don't brag or even hint to coworkers that you've had sex with the woman.
Show her respect and assure her that you're interested in her as a person and not just for sex.
2007-01-02 00:24:18 · answer #1 · answered by ghostwriter 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the first email she would need an assurance from you that you aren't playing game with her. leave her with your number and call her up or even meet her up and be completely honest about your feelings towards her, such things are better said in person than by email. :) hope it works out great for you!
2007-01-02 08:23:10 · answer #2 · answered by Melody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't send her and e-mail--they have a way of getting into the wrong hands in offices. If you have her phone number--call her and ask her for another date--then talk her--keep this on a highly personal level.
2007-01-02 08:26:48 · answer #3 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know that you had a nice time, and you would like to see her again, at dinner not in the bed. She needs to know that you like her as a person and this was not just a booty call.
2007-01-02 08:35:35 · answer #4 · answered by stringhead3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself,r u sure she was single 5 years ,doesnt sound fitting ,either she wanted casual sex or is getting back on someone,or she is into u,also depends on her past,if divorced or hurt ,its a casual usually ,have to dig deep into her
2007-01-02 08:26:31 · answer #5 · answered by reifguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say what dude? U got a lay, move on to next woman. She will trap u if u will see her again.
2007-01-02 08:23:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Don't email her, that's impersonal.
Call her and ask her out again.
2007-01-02 08:28:43 · answer #7 · answered by eyes_of_iceblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send her some flowers and ask her out again....be sincere...be gentle and be good to her....good luck
2007-01-02 08:22:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you SURE that's what she was feeling? Maybe she just didn't like it.
2007-01-02 08:29:31 · answer #9 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say it like it is rather than let her guess- don't let her mind read yours, she'll read it all wrong
2007-01-02 08:24:33 · answer #10 · answered by antagonist 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋