We've been dating 2 years and engaged for one. Is our non existant (once a week or less) sex life a sign that some thing is really wrong. We have no kids. We live together, and share the same work hours. So we see eachother a lot durring our week.
2007-01-02 00:12:03 · 17 answers · asked by night_lilly66 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When the "new" wears off a relationship, the sexual fire tends to dim as well unless the couple takes action to keep it going. Talk about this with your partner and see what you two can do together to spice things up and get that spark back.
An unsatisfactory sex life will cause problems down the road...and so will lack of communication.
2007-01-02 00:24:02 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily, but you must absolutely talk about this together. Who normally initiates sex, you or your partner? If it is you, have you stopped initiating or are you being rebuffed? If it is your partner, has he stopped making the first move? Or does he and you don't feel like it?
There are many reasons for a reduction in libido that don't have to mean that "the end is near" (though that is certainly a possibility), for instance stress, over-use of certain drugs (tobacco, alcohol, illegal stuff...), fatigue, health issues...
If you want to make this work, you need to talk about it together, possibly with a professional counselor. It would also be a good idea to have a complete medical checkup to make sure that there is no physical problem. If you do not both acknowledge that this is a problem, and if you don't agree that it has to be solved, then I would definitely advise against marriage.
2007-01-02 00:27:03 · answer #2 · answered by rover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear don't worry for anything in life, the sex life sometimes is good fr there relationship and make it strong, if u love each other true love, don't have doubts and fear from the end OK.
2007-01-02 00:15:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's lacking testosterone. If so, a simple check up will confirm this and he can start waring a patch or get a shot every couple of weeks. Good luck.
2007-01-02 00:17:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need a break...take a vacation alone an spend time with yourself or with your pals...I'm sure it will work wonders coz "absence makes the heart grow fonder". the thing you have mentioned happens in th best of relationships so i'm positive you have nothing to worry about.
Then you shud try an spice it up with ur to be.Sometimes doing crazy things which u only dreamt of can work wonders to spark up a dying sex life.start experimentig with him...read cool tips from mags like cosmo...send sexy one liners in sms or perhaps you could send raunchy mails to him in his working hours.all the best!
2007-01-02 00:25:03 · answer #5 · answered by sonz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should take a vacation somewhere both of you would enjoy going and plan on having sex in the hotel room.
2007-01-02 00:14:51 · answer #6 · answered by osunumberonefan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is an obvious problem and if you want to save this relationship then talk about it you never know you just might need to freshen up the relationship that all
2007-01-02 00:16:38 · answer #7 · answered by dodgerchik 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Shite, how old are you? 60 plus, then that's normal. 50 plus, not really good enough! 40 plus, blimey, how's an affair sound? 30 plus, I'm outta here! 20 plus, why are you there and why are you asking others what you should do?
2007-01-02 00:16:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take some time off on a holiday like in the cook islands or something or Fiji or something like that or even Hawaii.
2007-01-02 00:16:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be a sign that you need to spice things up a bit...
2007-01-02 00:15:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋