2007-01-01 23:35:59 · 37 answers · asked by ffdream21 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should get your own back. Phone sex with me would be a good start..
2007-01-01 23:40:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
You stated that your boyfriend is having an affair again? So that means he has cheated on you in the past. I think you should first confront him about it and if he says that he is txing her and has an attitude about it, then to me that means he really doesn't care about how you feel. In that case break up with him and move on with your life. He will only cause you more heart ache and he is really worth it? NOT! You deserve much better, so don't lower your self-esteem over him. Be the better person and walk.
2007-01-02 00:13:51 · answer #2 · answered by daisy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking from personal experience - are you sure he's having an affair - I read messages on my partners phone a few months back and after a chat with him and the receipient of the texts it turns out he's just a little boy who needed to grow up and not be fascinated by rude words and dirty talk!
After a few stern chats, loads of rows, lots of crying and one occasion where I slapped him - we're back on track.
He's still in touch with the other girl - I know there is nothing in it. But he made a friend and I cant deny him that - he knows if he lied to me again not only would be loose his favorite part of his body but I would make sure everyone knew about it.
Its easy for everyone on here to judge you for not dumping in the first time - but you obvioulsy love him - just be up front with him - ask him if he's cheating on you and work it out from there.
But....if he's dipping his wick elsewhere then your best of out of it - who knows what sort of diseases the sla*per is he's having it off with has.
good luck
x
2007-01-02 01:52:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is confront him about it, and tell him that he has no more chances left, and then dump him. If he was worth your precious time he would be faithful and not look at another women, so therefore he needs to be shown the door, as quickly as possible! After all think of it in these terms.... there are plenty more fish in the sea... and if you get rid of this one who is cheating... you can make yourself free to be with someone who will be faithful to you and not try to be with anyone but you...!
2007-01-02 01:40:03 · answer #4 · answered by wiccanfairiekitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realtionships can be broken easily, and they are formed with alot of hard work. Txting is not a sin, but you need to be sure he is not txting , he is CHEATING, and if that is the case, then you have to make sure, that you take the step which is good for you,, or your child / ren , if any.
people say alot of things, but u need a friens at this time. and if u havent got a friend, then u have ur inner friend, talk to urself and see if he is worth giving a chance , or is it worth a chance for u to break free.
wishing you luck and hapiness
2007-01-01 23:56:56 · answer #5 · answered by soa210 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Again? You should have dumped him the first time.
Since you didn't.. how about dumping him now?
He's obviously going to continue cheating and that's his choice. You can't change that but you can change how you react to it.
Don't deliberately make yourself unhappy. Get rid of this guy and find someone who respects you. :)
2007-01-01 23:42:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well for a start i believe evryone deserves a second chance but hes doing it again hes walking all over you. i would get rid you can do better. i forgave my boyfriend but if he did it again that would be it no more chances.
2007-01-02 21:46:17 · answer #7 · answered by REBEKAH O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the question? You obviously have Doormat written on your head. Dump him today or dont complain.
2007-01-02 00:22:58 · answer #8 · answered by Annie M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you caught him on his mobile texting another woman hes having an affair with,why is he still your boyfriend.
Please dont say 'coz i love him'
I cant stand women like that
2007-01-01 23:41:36 · answer #9 · answered by freerange00720002000 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
again? so he has done this before? if he has i would of dumped him the first time........... i mean if the guy has other fellings 4 another girl i would of dumped him the first time i found out!!! well good luck
2007-01-02 00:06:56 · answer #10 · answered by likewhoaitsashleymarie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick him in the nuts and never let him back into your life again, breakin up hurts, but him cheatin whilst being with u will hurt more
2007-01-02 00:47:54 · answer #11 · answered by kitten 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋