Me and the ex g/f split, way back in august... 4 year relationship... she dumped me, i told her to leave ME alone, no texts, hone calls, anything, this was about 3 months ago... Neway she sends me a crimbo card.. and she sent me a new years txt, 'Hey #### hope u you have a gr8 2007, happy new year, luv #'.
I know its a nice gesture but i dont want to hear from her, she messed me up properly. why is she contacting me still...?
2007-01-01 22:45:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look, she dumped you. Plain and simple. She was the "bad guy" in this scenario. She made a decision, didn't care about your feelings and kicked you to the curb.
If you had said "If you ever change your mind, I'll be waiting for you" then her actions would seem like she's seen the error of her ways and she's trying to make amends. However, You made it clear that you wanted her to leave you alone. She should respect her decision.
However, there are people out there that love to play mind games. They say they're you're friend then they get mad and say "don't call or email me again." Next thing you know, they're calling or emailing you because it was all a pathetic mindgame. They're messing with your mind!!
She's still contacting you because she wants to keep messing with your mind. Don't call back. Ignore her messages Don't text her.. Ignore her!!! She'll get the hint eventually.
2007-01-03 14:22:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 6⤋
she obviously still loves you...but dont go back to her if she did you over once she will keep doing it....she prob thinks she can do u ova again...or maybe she really is sorry and wants a chance to make it rite....she could be the one, but obviously isnt if you wan ther to leave you alone :) tell her you hate her and you have another gf and then she mite leave you alone.,...Good luck
2007-01-01 22:51:20 · answer #2 · answered by Mandy :) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she can't let go of the past. she feels guilty for what she did, regardless if it was the best decision for her. by not maintaining a friendship with her, it probably makes her feel worse. so, to ease her conscience, she is trying to be friends. i'm not saying you should be friends with her, but you wanted to know why she wouldn't leave you alone.
2007-01-01 22:54:50 · answer #3 · answered by Angel Baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her to ***** off next time she tries to contact you. You have to be direct. I've had to do this to get rid of girls in the past
2007-01-01 22:48:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
tell her straight you hurt me bad i cant handle you contacting me please just leave me alone ,if need be change your number that 1 worked 4 me I had to change my home and mobile number to get rid of him it worked, just be sure its what you really want first good luck
2007-01-01 23:00:19 · answer #5 · answered by debbie anne 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
cuz shes a dumb joke. tell her to f_ck off once and for all. in fact, dont even respond to her. change ur emails and ur numbers. obviously this chick is psycho.
2007-01-01 22:48:35 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
they're demons, devils, evil gurls, i tell you what to do..
call her, and say: hey there, listen, YOU MAKE ME SICK!! F*CKOFF!! and she'll never contact you aGain..
2007-01-01 22:52:21 · answer #7 · answered by steve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To mess you up again ! that's why...
2007-01-01 22:49:53 · answer #8 · answered by schuschtermat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋