I miss my home very much. I can't live with out seeing my mother.
2007-01-01 22:41:38 · 18 answers · asked by tinu 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
first calm down and think of the good cause that got you far from them , if you are here to study think of how better you will be in a couple of years and how proud of you they will be, same if you are here to work.
put some old family pictures in your room, they will remind you of the good days and remember that these warm feelings will always keep ou in touch
2007-01-01 22:45:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
HI,
Have you ever thought how much your parents make you to study even with there troubles asside? See, she wants you to study well, She thought staying in hostel would be comfortable for your studies. Thinking of mother at time will be wasting of time of your studies. Think does really your mother like such a way of you? Won't she think why not you understand her, since she is doing it for your own good.
I sure know how tough it is. But if you think all these, you will sure concentrate on your studies. If you didn;t do it. Then it is one kind of sellfish (sorry to say like this.) that you think of your satisfaction, not your mom's thought about you.
You know all my life i spend in hostel and just an year i spend time now and then with my parents. Now i am away from them after marriage. But i was really happy , as i felt my mom does it for my own good. She surely knows what's the best. I never felt i am away from my parents, as i allways have them in my heart.
It is upto how you take things in your heart.
See your parents suffer a lot to make you studies, Do you think your worries are more worth than them? Or may be you will relise it when you being a parents.Understand their feelings. You can make parents happy untill they live, after then you cannot even help them out. There is no use to feel later. Think of all these and relise yourself which is the best. If you feel bad, Think of your parents suffereings. That will sure make you a grow up girl and you will concentrate on your studies.
You call her twice a week. Feel happy atleast you can talk to her. I did not have that facility. So much of rules the time i was in hostel. So atleast you are better than me. You can have cell phone with your warden's permission and talk to your mom.I hope by this you be matured.
2007-01-03 10:39:33 · answer #2 · answered by Mayandi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best that you write to your mum regularly but dont talk over the phone too much as that makes you miss her more. Also start having lots of friends around you to keep you occupied Sometimes loneliness make you miss your mum. If you are underage then I would suggest you return home and not be staying at a hostel.
2007-01-02 09:40:59 · answer #3 · answered by Prav 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it sometime. You will get over it. Believe me. I started staying in a hostel since I was 10. First two years were horrible. Then i got adjusted to the atmosphere.
2007-01-04 08:20:37 · answer #4 · answered by SMG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send mails, letters, call her... Keep a picture but don't forget. U've come to that hostel for some reason. Busy urself with that. Best of luck!
2007-01-02 15:35:41 · answer #5 · answered by r33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the time to grow up. Think about all the good things you can offer to your mon and dad and siblings, when you get good education, good job and good money. They have done and are doing what they could for you, and now it's your turn to start making your own efforts to do the same for them. This is the time when motivation should guide you and don't let your emotions play with their expectations and dreams.
2007-01-04 01:31:09 · answer #6 · answered by Smriti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart i live in a hostel too.
I have loads of friends here who face the same problem.
Call your mom as often as possibly.
Keep sending her mails.
Chat with her online.
Keep loads of pics of our family in your room.
Make our room as homly as possible,
make it like your room back home,
keep things in your room which are dear to your parents as a token of rememberance.
Tell your friends about how much you miss you mom or family
talk to our friends about your problems,discuss them,
get close to them.
Don't worry it takes time to settle down then slowly your friends become your family.
immerse yourself in our work that helps.
Go out a lot.
I think our lonely
I think thats where the problem lies.
Don't lock yourself in our room and brood over the fact that you miss your parents,go out get to know people,talk to them,open up.
Take care
I'm sure your friends will help you out.
2007-01-01 23:07:10 · answer #7 · answered by shruti v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Understandable. You need the same support system you are used to at home. Please befriend someone who feels the same and understands you as well. Also be careful emotionally you are at a raw stage and someone can advantage of those emotions. If talking to your parents everyday help, make that call every night before going to bed.
2007-01-01 23:08:31 · answer #8 · answered by indiangal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you miss your mom a lot... but at the same time by staying in the hostel you must learned how the world is... talk to your mom in the evening times.. spends your time with your friends some times with your coarse... think that your mom is with you only...
2007-01-02 00:12:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try calling them daily,visit them frequently as possible,but u should learn to live independently my friend,it is good u love ur mom so much but think practically,and thats how life is full of meetings and partings!
2007-01-02 01:52:47 · answer #10 · answered by divya1_hayag 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋