me and this dude dated sometime back..we never broke up but i just went to onother country to complete me studies and we were to have a long distance relationship but we lost contact, i tried so hard to get his contacts from people but i failed to get them and it seemed as though everytime i went back during the school holidays he was gone and i would maybe see him either before i go back to school or just as he leaves to go on holiday, now i work and ..so this festive i decided to take a break from work to go and see him and by luck he was there,we spoke bout how much we missed each other, and it felt good coz i had found him my man had finally came back..i mean we did the things we have be doing for all this time made love like never before..and i only find out 2 days before i leave that he is getting married in 3month..what am i going to do? should i go to the wedding and watch the man i love marry someone else? im confused and hurt please help l
2007-01-01 21:35:24 · 12 answers · asked by hip2bmary 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you don't tell him how you feel, you will never know.
If yoy don't take Chances in life, you will never get anywhere.
It's stupid to let somone else have him, when you are
the one that loves him.
So tell him, before he becomes
someones spouse.
Good Luck.
Yes I do Like my guy, very much.
2007-01-03 00:52:06 · answer #1 · answered by Shauna. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are into getting repeatedly hurt then by all means go to his wedding.
If you love him does he know this? It's too late to tell him now--so don't. Just move on and remember how sometimes things happen out of your control.
Your biggest mistake that I can see is that you didn't go with him to that other country--or you didn't convince him to stay with you and complete his studies locally. If you were really in deep love with the guy you'd walk on burning coals to be with him or to keep him near you.
2007-01-01 22:06:42 · answer #2 · answered by Mr_B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear this. It's time to move on and don't have anything to do with him. It helps to get over him faster. There are other very nice prospects for you out there - the world is very big, surely you've met good looking guys in the country you studied!
2007-01-01 21:43:26 · answer #3 · answered by Cappuccino 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are going to remorseful approximately it in case you do no longer see her on her final day. what's a pair hours out of your day and as nicely you in all probability won't see her for yet another 2 years. It surely sounds such as you 2 have grown aside already so bypass and make the main of it and give up dramatizing issues!!!!!
2016-11-25 22:03:04 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he obviously got over you, and you need to accept that and move on. If you are still not over him, going to his wedding is NOT a good idea. You made your choice -- to go overseas to study, knowing it would result in a long-distance relationship -- now you live with it.
2007-01-01 21:38:10 · answer #5 · answered by wnk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whatever you do, dont lose your head. he's obviously used you for his own personal sexual desires and has done you wrong just now by being engaged to someone else without even telling you about it. leave this guy well enough alone, he aint worth your time, dont go to the wedding and try moving on and start dating other guys.
2007-01-01 21:38:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, don't go to the wedding. Go out and have fun instead. You need to move on and find someone else.
Good luck!
2007-01-01 21:37:43 · answer #7 · answered by Great Dane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how much u like him
if he is havin an arranged marrige or else there will be three broken hearts
2007-01-01 21:38:17 · answer #8 · answered by umair a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe when u went he tought u don't want him and he fell for amother girl it's too late for u to get back to him!
2007-01-01 21:47:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he made love to you and he's getting married,,, give yourself a break,, i mean come one! you dont expect him to be faithful to you if he's like that,,, what to do?? forget him!
2007-01-01 21:40:26 · answer #10 · answered by anna113 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋