found she registered with a dating agency. how can i confront her?
2007-01-01 21:33:27 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Follow her and accidentally catch her out.
2007-01-01 21:34:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well... I think you already know what's going to happen, you just asked this question to see if someone has a third answer.....
1. You confront her, which I think you should, but get ready for that fight for invading her privacy.
2. You don't confront her and it will drive you crazy and only make it worse as time goes on.
You could try to soften option 1 by opening up a conversation about those types of sites, maybe even say "oh i always thought of getting into one of them until I met you".
Best case senerio she tells you, "oh I tried that once never really liked it"
Lol either way there is going to be a fight, the only thing you can do is soften the playing field as much as possible, good luck!
2007-01-01 21:46:26 · answer #2 · answered by soccerpsychic 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know you shouldn't pry right. If you confront her, she's going to snap on you. So maybe it'd be better to wait until you have more information about the dating thing. Because there could always be a reasonable explanation for it. HM, and there's always a possibility it's spam mail? You just can't make assumption and pry. You have to have more info than one e-mail before you should confront her.
2007-01-01 21:38:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best person to know how to confront her is you, as you know her better than we do. Firstly you must know that the highest forms of love are inevitably totally free choices and not acts of conformity.
You must approach her with all the facts composed properly, and confront her in a calm and respective manner. As anger only clouds ones judgement and creates anger for the other person too. Do not make a big fuss out of it, so stay calm and composed. Should she wish to date others then let it be so, and let her go in her way without restraint. Like I said, to love someone truly is to love them through free choice. Peace and best of luck.
2007-01-01 21:45:56 · answer #4 · answered by Eternal Soul 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cyber romance is surely alluring, mystical, bewitching and seductive. You are right to be alarmed. You write that you wanted the same things for your marriage at the start. Did that mean monogamy, faithfulness and fidelity? If not, you need to review that initial understanding between you and reevaluate the meaning of your marriage. If so, you both need to recommit to that original reason you are together: your love of one another! That your intimacy has been compromised because of this extramarital distraction reinforces the seriousness of the matter and cries out to you both to "get it together" again and soon.
2007-01-01 22:49:09 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is a **** full stop, Now with you how does she confront you after the way you found out thats the Question
2007-01-01 21:38:26 · answer #6 · answered by jamesiewaimsy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you looked to see when she actually joined,for all you know it could have been before she met you and hasnt removed herself from the site,why dont you just ask her nicely.problem these days is every one is asking on here rather than ask their partner.im sure if you sit down and talk nicely she will tell you.but can i say looking through her emails was so wrong,there seems to be no trust here,weither she is up to some thing or not you dont go through other peoples emails.
2007-01-02 01:07:02 · answer #7 · answered by shaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you be looking through her emails?
Maybe she just wanted to get a good look around. It doesn't mean she's going out with other people.
Why don't you ask her but in an unassuming way?
2007-01-01 21:37:10 · answer #8 · answered by Trinity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No easy answer, either admit you INVADED her privacy and confront her which will make her very defensive, or let it go which means you gotta deal with the guilt of your convictions.
2007-01-01 21:49:28 · answer #9 · answered by Diz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for starters, you shouldn't have been looking through her email in the first place........but since you did, you could just ask her why did she register for the dating site?
2007-01-01 21:36:14 · answer #10 · answered by Asia_Unscripted 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no need to, its harmless, i mean she could of registered to that dating agency long before she even met you.....and why the hell are you looking through her emails, thats private!
2007-01-01 21:35:31 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋