and its a long distance relationship. i have found out she has been on a dating website looking for men in her area. do u think she is cheating on me?
2007-01-01 21:14:18 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe not yet but i bet she will
maybe pay her a surprise visit
2007-01-01 21:16:10 · answer #1 · answered by girly2012 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's the thing... women want people they can be with, people they can SEE , she wants some one in her area don't sweat it. she may just be looking for a friend. Even if she does find a guy don't consider it cheating its not like y'all actually spend time together right. If you do consider this cheating dont make it such a big deal this online dating thing confuses me. I have a friend who has been dating a girl 10 states away for about 6 months now and he has passed up really pretty girls actually in his town for her and he has never met her. And they will probably never meet. agh good lucky buddie.
2007-01-02 05:20:19 · answer #2 · answered by catieann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's hard to answer that question,
especially when i don't know anything about you or your girlfriend.
but let's say she is.
if she is,
she's clearly not satisfied with the relationship she's having with you.
it could be that she doesn't think the relationship you thought you had with her wasn't serious.
it's possible that she may have thought that she could see other people while dating you.
you should talk to her about it.
& also, be careful what you say, because you don't want her to think you KNOW that she's been on a dating website.
you should find out if she's been on the website recently,
because she may have been on that website before she started dating you.
there are a lot of possibilities.
but make sure to keep your options open.
& talk to her about your relationship.
i mean, relationship is about "trusting" and sharing everything with each other, isn't it?
2007-01-02 05:20:15 · answer #3 · answered by marr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well shes giving it a good go.But not necessarily cheating (yet) seems as though shes maybe finding an alternative though.If you're questioning that she might be then maybe its time to move on anyway
2007-01-02 05:34:21 · answer #4 · answered by Nellynoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know how often u see each other and what kind of relationship u have cause i dont know if this can be called cheating
maybe u should talk with her about ur relationship and what u are both willing to do about it
2007-01-02 05:22:54 · answer #5 · answered by athina68 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did you find out she was on these site where you on them your self looking or checking up on her, I say dump her get the pain over and done with now instead of later when it will hurt more.
2007-01-02 05:31:12 · answer #6 · answered by jamesiewaimsy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whether she already has or not, it sounds like she is planning to. Don't wait for her to cheat on you, dump her and let her know that you deserve better before you get hurt.
2007-01-02 05:17:26 · answer #7 · answered by crazychick171717 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
plain and simple YES. Sorry its hard to hear it like that but sometimes you just have too. wake up sunshine, you dont look for men in your area for no reason!
2007-01-02 05:18:15 · answer #8 · answered by Dee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey be sure before you do any thing
be sure
and if she is cheating then talk to her politely work on your relation
you are lucky i am 24 m single
2007-01-02 05:18:04 · answer #9 · answered by umair a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful-my ex used to do this while we were living together,saying it was just for fun.
Sure-he's now married to some B he met.
2007-01-02 05:26:09 · answer #10 · answered by barbara 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that depends maybe she is maybe she isn't maybe she look for guys to date with her for her friends?you won't know sooner or lateryou'll noe when she's going to break up with you or maybe u r asking her to get married soon then she said not now and you'll get suspicious with her.
2007-01-02 05:19:24 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋