Please help. The other night got extremely drunk and was a real **** with the guy I have been having an affair with and who I love, now he is completely blanking me and I dont know what to do, I can;t live without him. Yeah, I was in a bad mood and he knew that, but now he's dispappeared. Please don't say forget him and move on because I really cant do that, I just feel so embarassed that I was so awful and now I just want him back with all my heart.
Now normally I would turn to my two best friends, but we havent been getting on so well lately and on new Years Eve we had a massive argument and it looks as if neither of them want anything to do with me anymore.
These three people were the main people in my life, they WERE my life and now they've all gone.
I am moving house on Thursday and wanted my friends to be there and they won't. I just dont know what to do.
Please help.
2007-01-01 20:56:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
kay so, all you have to do is apologize to all of them. Don't blame it on being intoxicated. You have realize that alcohol does impare your judgment. But something inside of you made you be that way towards him. And whatever your reasons are, who knows. You have to get over them. And talk to him, and tell him what's in your heart. How you need him in your life, or whatever. And for your friends, if they were your true friends they would be there for you thick & thin. They're not going to hold a grudge on an arguement. They will get over it. It's only Tuesday, they have 2 days to think about how stupid they're acting. And how you all need each other. It goes for all of them, if they loved you enough they'll be by your side again. Nothing is going to keep them far away. You just have to wait it out a bit. Don't keep harrassing them, talking about how you were drunk and didn't know what you were doing (worst excuse ever). Tell them you didn't know what had gotten into you, but you didn't mean to hurt anyone. It was a stupid move on your behalf. No worries, things will be great! <3 =]
2007-01-01 21:08:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, this guy if he is having an affair with you cannot be trusted anyway, I know this first hand. Friends will normally always forgive, they only have your best interests at heart. Give them a call, and just explain how your feeling and apoligise if you feel you need too. I know what it is like to feel like you have lost everyone in your life, but you should concentrate on yourself from now on...
2007-01-01 21:06:03 · answer #2 · answered by ads_011 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologize
2007-01-01 22:28:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems that the problem if ur own . u have to change urself .
i am sure u r doing things that make others leave u .
u have to change ur behaviour
and give them time to recuperate and then approach them with a changed set of mind . so that even they realise that u have changed for good
2007-01-01 21:00:57 · answer #4 · answered by sas35353535 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this can be hard to deal with. And yes, it sounds like your life could be quite different in the future. Remember, that to sometimes truly find ourselves we have to "lose everything" or hit a rock bottom. A lot of people find God in this way. I think starting a new life could be just what the doctor ordered for you. You never know, perhaps you find a job that you really like and will be happier at. Sometimes finding happiness and solitude takes time even if you don't see it right now. Also, are there any relatives you could couch surf on until you rebounded and found another job, or friends you know that could help you, etc? Seriously, If worse comes to worse, there are always homeless shelters you can apply for. There are a lot of good people in the world that will help you out.
2016-05-23 05:38:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you've been taking these people for granted! Sooner or later people get tired of being under appreciated and say to hell with that person, which sounds like what happened to you.
You could go groveling at their feet and beg for forgiveness.
2007-01-01 21:03:56 · answer #6 · answered by Stan Darsh 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hmmmm.......try Maury Povich or Jerry Springer..............
Sounds like drinking is getting you in trouble, maybe you should not do it so much..................
2007-01-02 00:31:08 · answer #7 · answered by CuriousMishawaka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to quit feeling sorry for yourself and change your actions, you don't like the way you are then do something about it :) :) :)
2007-01-01 21:03:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you got issues
2007-01-01 20:59:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋