problem is he is 11 yrs older than I and only calls when "he" wants to see me or has some desire to fullfil, but Im also hooked on this guy coz its been long since dating, its not his money or his car thats got me hooked, I happen to have a good career and earn quite a lot to satisfy every angle of my needs and wants, all i want is to have a lover to love me and ot use me.
2007-01-01 20:00:11 · 13 answers · asked by minx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to tell him to call you. Men need to hear what they want from us. They just don't automatically know. It's frustrating, I know... but communication is really the solution. Tell him you would really love it if he called you more often... and when he does call make sure he knows it is appreciated.
2007-01-01 20:03:49 · answer #1 · answered by Alexa K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG, you are an idiot!!! My proof for all who are reading this, look at her other questions, all posted within the last 10 mins. You are REALLY craving attention from everyone here on yahoo. Make up your mind, do you think you are pregnant with fetal movements at 5 WEEKS or do you think your boyfriend is obviously using you? Honey, get a life. Learn to love yourself and stop trying to be pregnant to get attention from someone who sounds as though they don't care. If you really are successful, then what is the problem?
2007-01-02 04:10:00 · answer #2 · answered by katiesmommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You too stop calling him in return...its called reverse psychology . Maybe you call him so many times that he doesn't feel the need to do so himself. Stop contacting him . Wait and watch if he calls then my earlier mentioned theory is true . If not than you are just being a pile on...Get the hell outta here , You are young & have a wider range of choices than him .
2007-01-02 04:51:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you just indicated is that the guy is married and using you for sex. If that's what you want than continue; if not, than find someone else who will give his whole self to you. Trust me; what you just described is a man who is married or in another relationship and does not want the other women to find out he is also seeing you..
2007-01-02 04:10:07 · answer #4 · answered by denfasr 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Looks like he's using as a spare. Drop him if possible and move on with your life. Having to stay at his disposal is unacceptable. Don't forget, time and tide waits for no man thus you need to seek your own happiness.
2007-01-02 04:03:36 · answer #5 · answered by SingGirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he only calls you to see you or something then maybe he doesn't really want you or mabe be has someone else and he's just using you for his alternative. Then next time you talk to him ask him if he really loves you and ask him if he really wants to be with you. But if it sounds to you that his intrests for you is not always there then just find someone who really loves you and is always there for you.
2007-01-02 04:06:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most guys are just buttholes, they say they love you but they are just all talk and no action. But if you really want to stay with him then maybe try having a talk with him. If that doesnt work then try meeting new guys and maybe you will find the right one =]
2007-01-02 04:06:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
HAVE SOME RESPECT FOR YOURSELF. ITS CLEAR HE ISN'T INTO YOU LIKE YOU WANT. HE IS BORED AND TIRED OF YOU. DON'T LET HIM TREAT YOU THIS WAY, LOVE YOURSELF MORE. BESIDES YOUR AT AN ADVANTAGE, HE IS TOO OLD FOR A CUTE CHICK LIKE YOU THAT CAN DO BETTER. MOVE ON GIRL....THEIR ARE SO MANY TERRIFIC GUYS OUT THERE THAT KNOW HOW TO TREAT A GAL.
2007-01-02 04:09:03 · answer #8 · answered by brown eyes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why are you asking all theses questions about being pregnant when you say you have a 8mths old baby surely your should know as you have been pregnant before ??????
2007-01-02 07:25:19 · answer #9 · answered by flossypants 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he says he loves you trust him. give him space.
2007-01-02 04:04:43 · answer #10 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋