My fiance is a former Marine, you can definately tell by the way he carries himself and how he handles things. He's controlling with me, not abusive. I love this about him. Why? Is there something wrong with me? If any...?
2007-01-01 19:37:49 · 11 answers · asked by le_disko 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not a thing! If you enjoy his taking control and handling things that you find tedious or demanding in life, then why not enjoy the fact that someone you love is able to make your life a little easier? Let him know that you appreciate his abilities and damn what other people outside of the relationship seem to think, any negative words from them are just jealousy at your happiness...they have their own sorry azzes to look after!
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2016-11-25 21:57:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're both happy with the situation and nobody is harmed, then tie each other up with lace scanties and whip one another with liquorice for all I care. Really, anything is fine if you are both adults and happy with the situation.
I'm just wondering why you are questioning it, if you feel happy with the situation. Usually, people question things when they feel there's something wrong or they want to attract a little attention.
2007-01-01 19:43:09 · answer #3 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what controlling means and how you are willing to be pushed.
Never let someone control you to the point where you no longer recognise yourself or are being abused.
2007-01-01 19:40:46 · answer #4 · answered by why 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you certain that you aren't misusing the word "controlling"?
Perhaps he is "in control" and "strong" and "confident." There is nothing wrong with these things -- they can be very positive.
"Controlling" has the negative connotation which implies that he is forceful and quite possibly abusive.
2007-01-01 19:40:18 · answer #5 · answered by wnk 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he is a leader type but kind and respectful (not really "controlling") every woman should look for a man such as this. Liberals won't have a clue about this, however, and won't understand a word of it.
The above answer also says it well.
2007-01-01 19:40:27 · answer #6 · answered by Joseph C 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
nope, nothing wrong with you, you like the guy to be in charge
have a good life
2007-01-01 19:44:58 · answer #7 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it's called Low Self Esteem
2007-01-01 19:48:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey, if its ok with you, that is all that matters. I would hate it but if you like it, don't worry about what anyone else says.
2007-01-01 19:41:07 · answer #9 · answered by Chloe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you like to be dominated is all... there is nothing wrong with this as long as it's what you want :) :) :)
2007-01-01 19:40:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋