i want to have a relationship with someone...anyone really haha jk...im not desperate..but ok this one guy..he liked me first and he hit on me alot and stuff and then one time we were at a party and he got drunk and we talked and it was really nice because he let his guard down and stuff and he kept like play fighting and touching me and stuff..and then when he walked me home he held my hand...im still young so this kind of stuff still matters to me.. ok and so im a pretty shy person but im coming out of my shell but a couple days after the party we hung out and went to his house and watched a movie (for real) and it was fun but i think i was too bland..and like i dont know what to do...hes older then me so i dont think we have the same kind of things going on and hes a bit of a player..and umm sometimes well talk on the phone like 2 times a week and sometimes he'll say he will call me in a couple of days and then i dont hear from him for a month...im so confused!!!! PLEASE HELP!
2007-01-01 19:25:32 · 11 answers · asked by Sarah M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As you said your still young so enjoy each day and what it brings. If he calls talk if he doesn't it's not the end of the world.
2007-01-01 19:42:10 · answer #1 · answered by jean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there oh sweetheart you are being played by this guy and it does hurt a bit but you do not need this ....and by the way holding hands and cuddling at any age is good ...it helps a relationship at any age to work ......you are shy as you say and this guy knows this ......the bit that concerns me is the hitting not the toy fighting the real stuff ......no b/f should hit you at any stage of a relationship and if that happens get out of it as quick as possible you do not need this ....i know what im talking about .......you will find a nice lad that will love and look after you annd will phone you when he says .....i promise you ...he is out here somewhere good luck and take care xx
2007-01-01 19:32:37 · answer #2 · answered by a parent hows been there !! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just the fact that he is a player and older than you means that you can keep him as a friend but don't get too involved and keep looking for someone closer to your age who will be interested in the things you like and such. you don't need a player in your life if you want someone who really cares about you and not just want to touch you or eventually want to have sex with you..
2007-01-01 19:34:17 · answer #3 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um ok most guys dont call u back when they say they will....normally we have to call them first so thats nothing new or anything to be worried about and i wouldnt go for the players b/c theres more of a chance he'll cheat on u and no offense but from wat ur telling me about this guy,he isnt good enough for u like he gets drunk,hes older than u,and hes a player but thats just my opinion
2007-01-01 19:37:00 · answer #4 · answered by eazybreezy103 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-06 07:55:20 · answer #5 · answered by haslinger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already said he's a " bit of a player " right there is your answer honey, move on. You'll be glad you did.
2007-01-01 19:29:45 · answer #6 · answered by Danelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup, that's what us guys do to girls that we want as "pearls" on a string" - just keep them at arm's length until we're done with our current fling, so we that when we get "lonely", we can just find another "pearl" on the string to hook up with.
2007-01-01 20:22:18 · answer #7 · answered by i♥sf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he is not the one he just wants to get in your pants i no i had the same problem b4 so let him go it isnt worth getting hurt
2007-01-01 19:29:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, he is a player. Cut your losses and move on.
2007-01-01 20:21:23 · answer #9 · answered by Angel Eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a playa to me
dudet forget him.
if he really liked you he would call when he says he will
2007-01-01 19:28:57 · answer #10 · answered by citygirl18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋