ive only been talking to him for like 4 months now...seems longer since we talk like EVERYYY single day. we've never met and we live in the same province and all...6 hrs away pretty much. What should i do? Is this normal? what do u think about it... lol
2007-01-01 19:01:41 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im 14.
Hes 16.
just to make this all clear :P
2007-01-01 19:08:16 · update #1
so there will be no... meeting.. just yet anyways.
2007-01-01 19:08:37 · update #2
oh and i know hes not a fake...ive seen him on webcam and stuff. and he like acts younger than he really is Lol
2007-01-01 19:10:55 · update #3
The internet is an easy mask to hide behind. Don't get too jagged over a guy you have never met face to face. If you don't expect too much, you won't be overly dissappointed if it doesn't work out. On the other hand, if you don't expect much and he truly turns out to be something special, well....That would be awesome. But the truth is...on average, not too many of these relationships work out. So be prepared, just in case. Hope it DOES work out, and you are the acception, not the rule.
2007-01-01 19:05:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
keep in mind that u r asking this question to a bunch of people online at an ungodly hour ... so half of the girls on here answering have been scr##ed-over by some fella online, the guys all wanna' meet u personally 2 discuss it...lol...the truth is, there are weirdos and liars no matter where u go, whether it's a dark ally, the Internet or Disney World ... the heart is capricious, wild and fickle...and it's up to yer brain to filter out the riff-raff ...but, I met my wife online, and we now have a daughter, so it's not allll bad. ... If yer 14 (just saw yer "update" do NOT meet ANYONE anywhere...u should be doing homework!
2007-01-02 03:11:58 · answer #2 · answered by kedpayne4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not start a romantic relationship with someone you have not met in real life.
People can very easily hide behind a computer screen and keyboard, and I have known a number of people who are VERY different online than they are in real life.
If you are an adult (over 18) and you think this is still something you'd wish to pursue, I'd recommend meeting him in real life. Bring with some friends, in case you need protection, and plan to meet in a public place on neutral grounds. If he's not willing to make a 6 hour drive to come meet you, he's either not who he says he is, or he's not interested in pursuing a relationship.
Be careful! And good luck!
2007-01-02 03:05:32 · answer #3 · answered by wnk 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you check out everything and know that you are being safe then i think you can truely find love. You get to know a person very well by talking so much daily. I think the horror stories that you hear about this kind of thing usually come from people who meet very quickly and don't give the relationship enough time and effort to find out enough. If you are safe, go for it. Many years ago, people fell in love through writing letters. I don't think anyone really understands this type of thing until they experience it themselves. I'm all for internet love and I think it being 'normal' is up to you as only you know the full details of your conversations and feelings.
2007-01-02 03:08:25 · answer #4 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok for one he lives 6 hours from you and you are 14. I have to ask how you plan on getting there? is this something your parents are ok with and are gonna take you to meet him? I don't mean to sound harsh, but you are still very much underage also the net can be a dark place NO MATTER how nice they may seem. I am not saying this person is bad or anything else, but I am trying to figure out just how you plan on meeting this person being you are to young to drive. If this person plans to meet you are they going to drive to where you are? Will they meet you with your parents? Be extremely careful the net has turned into a very dark place, and just because he says he is young and looks young on a cam means NOTHING.
2007-01-02 03:57:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't wait too long before you meet him because it may seems as if you really know each other and really like each other; but, sometimes when you meet in person you may be disappointed. I talked to someone online for a few months and when we finally met - I knew within minutes that there would be no future for us.
2007-01-02 03:05:58 · answer #6 · answered by stacy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you do decide to meet him make sure you drive and dont get in his car no matter what. and also make sure that you meet in a very public place where there are lots of people. another thing you could do is tell him to get there at a certain time and then you get there just a little bit earlier so you can see what he looks like without him seeing you, then its all in your ballpark from there
2007-01-02 03:07:25 · answer #7 · answered by superstuddly 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hear some people meeting off the internet and getting married. If youre going to meet make sure its in a public area though
2007-01-02 03:03:40 · answer #8 · answered by Jamie G 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
4 months and you havent decided to meet yet?..what are you waiting for?...if you'd met a guy at a Bar then wouldnt you maybe date again in a quieter place to get to know him better?...so you have already got to know him via the internet and phone it is now time to meet...pick a safe venue...coffee shop etc..day time... and do the usual back ups...have a friend call etc;)
2007-01-02 03:06:13 · answer #9 · answered by panda64 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ive fallen for many guys, theres guys ive talked to for a few years, just make up ur mind if u want to meet him or not, because he probably wants a girl, and if its not u, it will be someone else
2007-01-02 03:14:36 · answer #10 · answered by Dead Birds Don't Poop 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋